So who has regrets?!?! I DO I DO

[WildBerry]

I went to the surgeon last week and he says they are as good as they get! He is going to do a little lipo around the incisions of the lift as there is a bit of pockey (fat deposit he thinks) .he says i just have to accept that this is it. It has changed me. i wish i never did it. i would do the lift again but not the implants. The lift i would be able to say to myself these are mine but lifted and perkier. But going in being excited about getting a sexier roundess and i didnt get any of that. I honestly feel like MRS doubtfire naked. I was self concious before, but I think because they were mine own I accepted the imperfections and had a confidence naked with hubby, now i am never naked, my hubby (A BOOB MAN) feels like i have crawled into a shell sexually, i dont have the freedom and happiness sexually. He told me today he wishes i never had it done because it has gone from saggy boobs that brought us both enjoyment to boobs that make me cry and he doesnt comment on or look at in case he makes me cry.

[hm814]

I'm sorry you are so unhappy....have you considered getting a second (or third) opinion?

[klayco17]

im sorry youre unhappy also. Its only been 4 months, and i heard it can take up to a full year to get the finaly results. As mentioned above, have you seen another doctor and for another opinion?

[JayJgirls]

Well I went thru a stage like that and it was awful I was posting on here about my massive depression from my breast augmentation cause I too did not get at all what I imagined or what I asked for. I still yet another surgery to try to get it right... I know about the whole sex thing it was bad real bad for a while.. but it did get better and I have like the most uneven boobs.. not to be graphic but when I am on my back one is in my arm pit and the other is not it stands up... but it's me and I my DH loves me no matter what and I am sure your hubby does too...

Have you asked if you could be relifted down the road to get you tighter?? You are looking for that more round implant Fake look right??? I have seen on JBI girls who got relifted in like year ??? Just thought ... Hang in there and know you are not alone!!!

[WildBerry]

We have 3 surgeons in the city and I called the other 2 and they "dont do other surgeon's re-dos" what the heck does that mean. I will look in other cities if I have to, but after giving my surgeon 12, 000 I just wanted to get the look i wanted. I was not looking for supermodel results, just the general shape that i was after.

[Horizon41]

I am so sorry you are going thru this I understand how depressed a breast augmentation can make you since I have had first cc and now need a pocket revision. I just wish your ps would be more understanding to what you want. I would try to get another opinion if possible just to see what they say. Hang in there maybe with a little more time they will improve for you.

[amermaidseyez]

awww i'm so sorry you feel down...i know it's rough not to when things dont initially turn out as you had expected...i'm in the same boat...i am going for a second opinion...hopefully things will take a turn for the greater for you! xo

[jice]

I understand where you are coming from....I had three breast augmentation's...still have a little complications but fortunately my doc is totally understanding and willing to work with me....I don't plan to have anymore breast augmentation's but I might have a little fat injections in the db on my left breast. I would definitely check into other doctors...even if you have to travel some. It sucks your doc is not willing to give you what you want. It doesn't sound like you had any complications...just not full enough.Try not to let this overcome you....give it more time to heal...I know you don't want to hear that but seriously four months really is too early yet to make any serious decisions. But I do understand your feelings!!

[Violettraine]

I just want to tell u that i looked at ur pics and u look really good! U have nice cleavage and a really great natural roundness.......Maybe u just need to get use to them..........ur end results wont apear for a year so dont worry they are still changing. U honestly look really good

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Im 29yrs old not married and no kids...just a Bf and a small dog
5'5
140lbs
surgery 11-11-09
pre op:34B
post op: D-ish not sure...
incision: Crease
Under Muscle

[unsure]

I'm sorry. I know this has been hard for you as I have read your posts over the past few weeks. Hang in there. Like other people said, keep looking. I don't think you look terrible, but you are unhappy, and that's the entire reason any of us do this. Hang in there. They are still your boobs. They're attached to your body, right? Just keep doing what you're doing: calling doctors, looking for an answer. You are doing just what you should be doing. Unfortunately, you may need to travel a bit for a doctor, but it will be worth it if you get the results you want. Hang in there!

[polemama]

I haven't had my breast augmentation yet, so I don't have much advice for you. Only sending positive thoughts your way. I am being truly serious when I say I looked at your phots and thought, " that's what I want my boobs to look like!!" I think they have the perfect look for what I want. Natural, full and not too round.
I totally understand the sex thng too. I was very comfortable and confident in sex before I had my son, and my perky B's went to sad A's. Now I tend to cover myself and feel bummed out during sex. I'm hoping my breast augmentation will restore some of that confidence.

** Oh ! Also, I live in Las Vegas. There is a surgeon here known worldwide for re-dos and revision surgery. He has been featured on breast reconstruction shows. His name is Dr Lane Smith. If you want I can get you his number. May want to check him out. Free consults too!
Best of luck to you, and I LOVE your boobs.

[WildBerry]

My goodness it is so nice to have the support and for women to understand. I dont speak to anyone i know about it because they wouldnt understand. I will seek another surgical opinion. I just wish my surgeon didnt look at the photos i brought in and say oh yes i can do that, take my money, and then say oh well we rolled the dice and didnt get what you wanted. I feel frozen as a woman. I know that doesnt make sense but i dont feel one bit sexy anymore

[WildBerry]

Originally Posted by polemama

I haven't had my breast augmentation yet, so I don't have much advice for you. Only sending positive thoughts your way. I am being truly serious when I say I looked at your phots and thought, " that's what I want my boobs to look like!!" I think they have the perfect look for what I want. Natural, full and not too round.
I totally understand the sex thng too. I was very comfortable and confident in sex before I had my son, and my perky B's went to sad A's. Now I tend to cover myself and feel bummed out during sex. I'm hoping my breast augmentation will restore some of that confidence.

** Oh ! Also, I live in Las Vegas. There is a surgeon here known worldwide for re-dos and revision surgery. He has been featured on breast reconstruction shows. His name is Dr Lane Smith. If you want I can get you his number. May want to check him out. Free consults too!
Best of luck to you, and I LOVE your boobs.

Thank you so much, I do go to vegas alot so his number would be great!! I hoped because i have the size i like and the position i like that getting that roundness would be an easy fix, i guess hearing my surgeon say iam all good has made me a lot lower than i thought it did at first. My hubby telling me that he sees the light and sexiness leave me over damn boobs is killing him too.

[WildBerry]

reading everyones posts has made me realize i am being a little selfish always posting about my woos!!!!! when i see what all of you have been going thru too. I want to say if i have not responded to your posts personally in the past and given you support i am truly sorry. Being caught up in my own little drama has made not respond to every thread i read and i want you all to know that i truly feel for all of you.

[LittleMissSophi]

I voted no....as in definitely am glad i had my breast augmentation (at least so far, 11 days PO). I do regret not going a little bigger...though some days they seem to look bigger than other days, which is weird. I agree with all the ladies that say you look like you have beautiful, full boobs. Now, I'm just going to assume they may look worse in person (I know mine look better in my pics, when I see them in the mirror I dont think they look that full.) Please keep in mind, nothing you did is permanent. I have a friend who decided to explant for various reasons after 5 years...and shockingly enough, her breasts look great! Very close to her pre-breast augmentation breasts. If thats what it will take for you to have your confidence back, it is always an option. Your old boobs are still there!


i hope you start feeling better soon, and do what is right for you!

[goldengurls]

I am sorry huney............ when we have a vision of how we should look and not get it it can be devastating. It can affect our own being...... sighhhhhhhhhh

I know you paid a ton of money, but I would talk to someone else for sure. I didn't get what I had invisioned either, but am better than I was. Sad way to have to look at it when you go in so excited thinking and having the Dr. tell you as well, you will be PERFECT..........

(((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))

[polemama]

Originally Posted by WildBerry

Thank you so much, I do go to vegas alot so his number would be great!! I hoped because i have the size i like and the position i like that getting that roundness would be an easy fix, i guess hearing my surgeon say iam all good has made me a lot lower than i thought it did at first. My hubby telling me that he sees the light and sexiness leave me over damn boobs is killing him too.

Definitely see this this PSnext time you are in Vegas. The good thing about vegas plastic surgeons is that they are very used to women wanting close to perfection and they are willing to accomodate. They will usually not stop until you are happy ( I don't kow if that's good or bad, but it's an option). I think this city is just a little different and most of the PS aren't very conservative by any means. And also, because of where this city is, these surgeons to high volume of cases and a wide variety of cases. So he may give you some hope for what you want.
Don't feel guilty about posting your feelings or emmotions. Everyone has a right on this site to get the support they need, no matter what the issue is.
Good luck to you.
PS. remember our men feed off of and react to the energy we give off. If you are cofident in your body, so are they. Unfortunately, if we are dissappointed and self conscious in our body, they start to feel that way too.
You should try to love your body and boobs a little more every day. I know it's easier said than done, and I'm not trying to trivialize it. But there is hope on the horizon. So know this is temporary and it passes. Enjoy your body, sex, and hubby now
I'm sending happy, sexy, diva, thoughts your way

[Horizon41]

Originally Posted by WildBerry

reading everyones posts has made me realize i am being a little selfish always posting about my woos!!!!! when i see what all of you have been going thru too. I want to say if i have not responded to your posts personally in the past and given you support i am truly sorry. Being caught up in my own little drama has made not respond to every thread i read and i want you all to know that i truly feel for all of you.

I do not think you are being selfish you look in the mirror and are unhappy I am the same way my left has bottomed out so I understand so well. You are wanting to look in the mirror and be happy and you deserve that. Just get you another opinion if you can and see what they say and keep us posted we all want you to be happy

[ladydraggin5302]

Look here missy I love you to pieces BECAUSE YOU HAVE HELPED ME OUT THROUGH SO MUCH THE LAST WEEK WHEN I NEEDED TO CRY YOU WERE HERE FOR ME now I am here for you...
you look amazing I know you don't believe me but I see myself as your friend and why lie to friends. I know it isn't what you wanted but man look at them at first compared to your pics. now and look how far they have come at first I saw what you were unhappy with but WOW they really have come along way and I do think over time they will look better.
Go see another PS don't tell him it's a re-do flat out just say I didn't get the results I wanted my old PS died and now here I am comming to see you!
You have an amazing body and an amazing husband (and well Fu@k the inlaws LOL)
YOU NEED TO LOOK IN THE MIRROR AND LOOK AT WHAT AN AMAZING WOMAN AND PERSON YOU ARE MOTHER AND WIFE...THEN LOOK AT WHAT YOU DO FOR YOUR FRIENDS AND HOW CARING YOU ARE...
I really don't like hearing you be so upset it just makes me sad I WISH YOU COULD SEE YOURSELF THROUGH MY EYES... YOU ARE EVERY BIT OF WOMAN THAT I WOULD LOVE TO BE!!!
PLEASE SMILE AND GO HAVE SEX WITH YOUR DH (HEHE)

[jamsmak04]

I thought the news wouldbe better. Go get a second opinion plz!!!Go see a few doc and start submitting pics to surgeons online and see what they say. I am soooo sorry