Too big.

[Excited]

Sorry your feeling that way hun I luv your boobies lol and your in my top 5 on here too I hope you feel better!

[bustersgurl]

Originally Posted by Blvd756

Girls I regret going so big. I've been struggling with this the last two months or so. I just wanted to put that out there because it's really upsetting me tonight.

I'm sorry that your feeling bad about your boobies, I think they look freaking amazing!!! What makes you feel so bad? is it because you feel that's all people focus on now?

[modern_illusion]

I'm sorry someone said something negative to you sweetie. You look amazing, and don't let anyone try to make you think otherwise. However, if you are truley unhappy, then do what you have to do to fix that. *Hugs*

[Blvd756]

It was a string of events (sorry this is lengthy).

I think that what happened was initially, a lot of people from my hometown couldn't believe that "I" would do something like that which lead to a lot of judgement and "big" comments. They were polite enough not to be public about it but I got the emails. That didn't bother me for a long time but eventually it got to a small part of me. My sisters sometimes felt embarrassed if I had pics on Facebook with cute outfits on- they felt I'd gone too big but are now over it, thank goodness.

Friday night some drunk guy at a concert randomly tapped me on the shoulder and asked if I was wearing a push up bra. I was wearing just a strapless bra under my halter. That made me a bit upset- I must be overly sensitive lately.

THEN last night past midnight, this guy that I've known for a few yrs that I'm not interested in was messaging me over FB asking if I wanted to come over. There was no way- I simply do not do friends with benefits or booty call situations. I was polite about it, but clearly made my point that it wasn't going to happen, not now or ever. This was his exact response due to his bruised ego-

"I'm going to be the best friend you ever had, because I'm going to be honest with you. I've wanted to say this for a long time, but I just haven't. OK, you're not a tease. You're not a fun party girl. From the rest of the world's view, you are. Life is about marketing, and for someone as smart and as nice as you are, you're going about it all wrong.

If you want a nice guy, market yourself as a nice girl. Posting pictures with your chest out and your fake boobs exploding out of your shirt isn't going to do that. It's going to market yourself to assholes just looking to get you into the sack. You want respect, stop and think about what gets respect and what makes you look like a whore. And as a result, don't get pissy or offended when a guy advances toward the image you put off. That's not his fault, it's YOURS."

Girls, I have albums on FB with my friends and I when we go out and trust me they aren't bad at all. I also do NOT have pics with my boobs "exploding out of my shirt." I did have one album with Vegas pics showing a little cleavage but hell, it was VEGAS! What sort of albums am I supposed to have on FB? Me studying, working, doing errands, cleaning and working out? FB is a place to put photos of you with your friends out enjoying yourselves- I have pics of concerts, summer festivals and trips, and KNOW they are tame. I never say anything suggestive over there, do not pose in bikinis, and actually crop some photos so I'm showing LESS cleavage.

He's deleted off of my page now, and I also made some albums completely private admittedly a bit paranoid that maybe I AM sending the wrong message. It hurts a bit because I KNOW deep down, if my breasts were still a B, these photos would not have been such a big deal. When it comes down to it, no, it doesn't matter what others think but your reputation IS ultimately important, as it is a very small world. WHY should breasts affect other people's opinions of you though?? Why does it have to be this way? People are so ignorant. Live and let live.

End of rant. I really appreciate how sweet you all are, and I will get over this. I do however, really, really miss being able to wear my cute little tops and not having to defend myself if I post pics on my Facebook page, or have women glare at me on the street, or men see me as a pair of breasts.

That's all girls- honestly last night it was tough but thanks to you I feel one thousand times better. Thank you- I love you all!

[mar]

Wow. I don't really blame you. I am having a problem with mine too, but not like that! I live in Houston and big boobs are just normal here. Still, I want to wear cute tops and dresses and right now can't. I'm tired of going on business trips and having people from more conservative parts of the country look at my chest with disdain. I think you should definitely go get them re-done smaller. Life is too short to get treated like that.

[chrisn]

Wow! I'm sorry you had to be the brunt of some immature idiots rant but here's the deal girl...do you think they're too big? Do they feel too big on your body? Or are you just reacting from crude comments made to you?

Leaving every jealous biotch and dimwitted A-hole out of the quotient, if you are still feeling too big, too uncomfortable, or not proportionate for YOU, then you have your answer.

FWIW, I think you look HOT! I'm a big 32D, small 34D and I do not feel mine are too big in any way, shape or form. I wish I would have gone a cup size bigger! Except when I wear the Venus bikini top then it's like BAM...ok, they're big enough LOL!

Seriously, this is about YOU! Don't let anyone make you feel any different. One of my very fave quotes is "nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent." Know it and live it. Good luck sweetie!

[bustersgurl]

Originally Posted by Blvd756

It was a string of events (sorry this is lengthy).

I think that what happened was initially, a lot of people from my hometown couldn't believe that "I" would do something like that which lead to a lot of judgement and "big" comments. They were polite enough not to be public about it but I got the emails. That didn't bother me for a long time but eventually it got to a small part of me. My sisters sometimes felt embarrassed if I had pics on Facebook with cute outfits on- they felt I'd gone too big but are now over it, thank goodness.

Friday night some drunk guy at a concert randomly tapped me on the shoulder and asked if I was wearing a push up bra. I was wearing just a strapless bra under my halter. That made me a bit upset- I must be overly sensitive lately.

THEN last night past midnight, this guy that I've known for a few yrs that I'm not interested in was messaging me over FB asking if I wanted to come over. There was no way- I simply do not do friends with benefits or booty call situations. I was polite about it, but clearly made my point that it wasn't going to happen, not now or ever. This was his exact response due to his bruised ego-

"I'm going to be the best friend you ever had, because I'm going to be honest with you. I've wanted to say this for a long time, but I just haven't.
OK, you're not a tease. You're not a fun party girl. From the rest of the world's view, you are. Life is about marketing, and for someone as smart and as nice as you are, you're going about it all wrong.

If you want a nice guy, market yourself as a nice girl. Posting pictures with your chest out and your fake boobs exploding out of your shirt isn't going to do that. It's going to market yourself to assholes just looking to get you into the sack. You want respect, stop and think about what gets respect and what makes you look like a whore. And as a result, don't get pissy or offended when a guy advances toward the image you put off. That's not his fault, it's YOURS."

Girls, I have albums on FB with my friends and I when we go out and trust me they aren't bad at all. I also do NOT have pics with my boobs "exploding out of my shirt." I did have one album with Vegas pics showing a little cleavage but hell, it was VEGAS! What sort of albums am I supposed to have on FB? Me studying, working, doing errands, cleaning and working out? FB is a place to put photos of you with your friends out enjoying yourselves and I KNOW mine are tame.

He's deleted off of my page now, and I also made some albums completely private admittedly a bit paranoid that maybe I AM sending the wrong message. It hurts a bit because I know if my breasts were still a B, these photos would not have been such a big deal.

When it comes down to it, no it doesn't matter what others think but your reputation is ultimately important, as it is a very small world. WHY should breasts affect other people's opinions of you though?? Why does it have to be this way?

End of rant. I really appreciate how sweet you all are, and I will get over this. I do however, really, really miss being able to wear my cute little tops and not having to defend myself if I post pics on my Facebook page, or have women glare at me on the street, or men see me as a pair of breasts.

That's all girls- honestly last night it was tough but thanks to you I feel one thousand times better. Thank you- I love you all!

First off he's immature and an a$$hole seriously....now that we've established that lets move on the part when he said it's your fault......umm noo how bout they get it out of their head that just because a woman has big breasts she is a sex fiend and want so f*ck every guy she see's because she has a big pair of titts. NOOOOOPE wrong fella's......girl please don't let this guys words get you down!! My BF (he's my husband now) was acting like a complete a$$hole when I actually got serious about getting a breast augmentation. I talked about it the whole time we've been together, (which is almost 4 years) but then when I actually set up a consultation he started to say that it was stupid and i didn't need to get it done. He said he would come with me and then the night before at midnight he told me he wasn't going. I think he thought that would make me not go to my consult but i still went anyways and while i was gone he sent me a text saying that he was going to leave and that if i got implants we would break up! he was acting sooo immature and just wanted to ruin my consult (that was 2 hours away). He wanted to me leave that's why he sent me that text, I ended up fighting with him and being late for my consult i looked a horrible mess because i had been screaming and crying in the car. I still went because it's something that i had really been wanting for myself for a long time, he just didn't understand that i wanted them for my own reasons like to feel more womanly, fit clothes and bikini's better, even out my figure a little more. He said it would change me because of my personality (because i'm already a confident woman) and he said i didn't need anymore attention that i already got enough already. He just thought because I was getting implants that I would leave him and cheat on him....become a whore basically i guess. He finally got over it now because i told him if he would break up with me for something that stupid i didn't want to be with him the first place!! Stop wasting my time! Besides I'M paying for it all by myself every last penny thank you very much!!

Bottom line is you look great girl and even if your boobs weren't as big you would still have haters. If you do well for yourself and take care of yourself it shows and especially other woman will become envious of you. I've heard of stories where females have had breast augmentation's and their girlfriends quit hanging out with them because they started to get more attention!! Alot of people don't like seeing you do well because it makes them feel like they aren't. People like to bring you down and feeling bad about yourself because it makes them feel better and that's all he was trying to do to you.

Try not to let hurtful things people say get to you, most of us had people say ugly things to us or about us but hell if it makes them feel better to talk about me then whatever. They are still focused on YOU! smile it off girl you know you got it going on and that's killin the haters! keep em hatin because you know your doing right if you got em! I hope this helps mama and if you need someone to talk to we are always here!!! *big hugs* and *smiles*

GREAT minds discuss IDEAS
AVERAGE minds discuss EVENTS
SMALL minds discuss PEOPLE

[bustersgurl]

Originally Posted by chrisn

Wow! I'm sorry you had to be the brunt of some immature idiots rant but here's the deal girl...do you think they're too big? Do they feel too big on your body? Or are you just reacting from crude comments made to you?

Leaving every jealous biotch and dimwitted A-hole out of the quotient, if you are still feeling too big, too uncomfortable, or not proportionate for YOU, then you have your answer.

FWIW, I think you look HOT! I'm a big 32D, small 34D and I do not feel mine are too big in any way, shape or form. I wish I would have gone a cup size bigger! Except when I wear the Venus bikini top then it's like BAM...ok, they're big enough LOL!

Seriously, this is about YOU! Don't let anyone make you feel any different. One of my very fave quotes is "nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent." Know it and live it. Good luck sweetie!

Exactly!!! F everyone else......seriously noone will love you like your love yourself.

[lilmomma8147]

I thanked you on your post for being an adult about everything...People are always going to say mean and hurtful things about you, whether you know it or not. I know I get talked about now, and I don't even have my boobs yet....They just wish that they looked half as great as you, or they wish they could have a girl that is half the girl you are....People are inconsiderate and say mean things to make themselves feel better....You truly look amazing...Do like I do, just brush it off, and remind yourself that they are just miserable with themselves....Be happy girl...You have a nice rack!!!LOL

[missjanny]

Girls are petty and Jelous my breast augmentation is in a few Weeks and I only hope mine turns out as Fab as yours ....be prund of your self from the inside out and just say...to anyone else that says Diff "to bad I'm Prettier....LOL

no worries u look amazing...The only thing that's to big is others people 's Opions!!!

[tabby15208]

IMHO he is just mad bc he got shot down...so he had to retaliate by being an ass. Don't internalize it. If it wasn't that it would be something else. He's probably like that with all women, AA to DD!

[biggies]

hey I understand completely the way you are feeling
When I had my 800cc's I started getting nasty comments
from guys that I didn't even know...at a bar...asked if they
were fake...said in a nasty tone...out at the beach guy
yelled it across the sand...are they fake...at macdonalds
yelled silicone...I was crushed and couldn't believe how
strangers could ridicule someone just like that...but it happens
I wasn't even wearing revealing tops...apart from when I was
at the beach wearing a bikini...

Just recently I had a pic up on facebook with my 800cc in a dress and you could just see the top
of my cleavage and a guy left a comment with *Pamela Anderson*
or something...I took the pic off along with his friendship

Anyway my redo ...the talking about my boobs was one factor in
reducing the size as well as the image of myself I portrayed
...I still think they are not small enough but less
obvious then before...

And guys will always throw smart arse remarks when rejected...I get them
all the time...stuff them...typical of a guy...so we are suppose to be covered up from
head to toe ?...how bout when guys have a bulge in their pants ?....shall we tell them
to cover up with a book in front...sheesh...lol

I love the way your boobs look...wish mine looked perfect like that...
Do what feels best for you because beautiful size is in the eye of the beholder...

[bustersgurl]

Originally Posted by biggies

hey I understand completely the way you are feeling
When I had my 800cc's I started getting nasty comments
from guys that I didn't even know...at a bar...asked if they
were fake...said in a nasty tone...out at the beach guy
yelled it across the sand...are they fake...at macdonalds
yelled silicone...I was crushed and couldn't believe how
strangers could ridicule someone just like that...but it happens
I wasn't even wearing revealing tops...apart from when I was
at the beach wearing a bikini...

Just recently I had a pic up on facebook with my 800cc in a dress and you could just see the top
of my cleavage and a guy left a comment with *Pamela Anderson*
or something...I took the pic off along with his friendship

Anyway my redo ...the talking about my boobs was one factor in
reducing the size as well as the image of myself I portrayed
...I still think they are not small enough but less
obvious then before...

And guys will always throw smart arse remarks when rejected...I get them
all the time...stuff them...typical of a guy...so we are suppose to be covered up from
head to toe ?...how bout when guys have a bulge in their pants ?....shall we tell them
to cover up with a book in front...sheesh...lol

I love the way your boobs look...wish mine looked perfect like that...
Do what feels best for you because beautiful size is in the eye of the beholder...

Damn that's harsh that people were saying those things to you! sorry you have to deal with immature people like that, i mean it's one thing to say it under their breath or something but to just yell it out in a crowd is just rude. Seems like your secure and confident with yourself and glad you don't let those idiots get to you! they aren't worth your time or energy....your boobies are! :-)

[smallboobs]

I'm so sorry ppl have been mean, judging from your avatar I think your boobs look amazing!

And the comment the guy made was just because you turn him down, I had a similar situation. I turn this guy down & he told me that no guy will ever date me because I wasnt good looking & that the only thing I had goin for me was that I was thin & that all I could hope was to be "available". I just ignored it because I knew he was tryin to make me feel bad because his ego went down the drain, just b/c I wasnt interested in him.

I wish ppl would have a little more respect towards woman who have breast augmentation. Just because we choose to get them done, doesnt mean they have the right to yell out "fake" or silicone; or to say that we are unitelligent and the only reason we get them is to get attention from men.

Dont let this guy or anyone put you down. *Hugs*

[sfgirl67]

tell that to GUY !! (sorry I love that smiley)

You look amazing! Your pics are in NO WAY RACY! That man is a fool. I cannot believe him. You are a woman who enjoys life. Trust me some of my girls have crotch shots on fb, wtf? Have some class! You my friend are an amazing woman who is living a great life, and you happen to look FANTASTIC. Brush that fool off, be lucky he showed his true colors and that you are DONE with him!

[Blvd756]

Originally Posted by sfgirl67

tell that to GUY !! (sorry I love that smiley)

You look amazing! Your pics are in NO WAY RACY! That man is a fool. I cannot believe him. You are a woman who enjoys life. Trust me some of my girls have crotch shots on fb, wtf? Have some class! You my friend are an amazing woman who is living a great life, and you happen to look FANTASTIC. Brush that fool off, be lucky he showed his true colors and that you are DONE with him!

LOL, that IS a great smiley, and yes, he's LONG GONE. Maybe I should put those albums back up.

[Amy_J]

Try not to take it personally when others project their insecurities on to you. If YOU are comfortable, them.

[mar]

ok, looking at your profile pic, you do NOT look too big to me. Maybe you are very beautiful and that guy is extremely insecure.

I think the girls here have the right idea, if you are unhappy and clothes don't fit and you don't like them, switch them. If not, keep them.

[Bngy]

What a jelous little creep!
That fact is your always going to get talked about wether its to your face or behind it. F them all and do whatever you dam well want to!

Your truly sexy and no matter what there are going to be bigger boobies than yours and smaller ones out there so get the ones YOU want

GORGEOUS BREASTS ARE A WOMANS RIGHT!!

If youve got em flaunt em!!

Your stunning!

[Shorty 06]

I actually took one of your pictures to my PS because your boobs were my favorite =) They're perfect (hope you didn't mind) However, I work at a retail store and half of the cute tops I want, I try on and of course it doesn't fit my bust. It sucks sometimes =/


Screw everyone who has something negative to say
He was probably just mad because you turned him down
I've had guys message me on AIM after I got them asking to see them
I don't know why guys think that when a girl gets a breast augmentation that she turns into a whore
I honestly don't care what anyone else has to say anymore, neither should you
Your gorgeous and got great boobs
It's your body and your life. You do what makes you happy.