Too big.

[fun2havethem]

Some people always have to be rude. They criticize AA or DD, just ignore them. You must do not allow jealous people to take your fun away. I had comments too, but usually I just laugh, or saying something silly, do not let the bi-ches get to you".

[Angel123]

Originally Posted by biggies

hey I understand completely the way you are feeling
When I had my 800cc's I started getting nasty comments
from guys that I didn't even know...at a bar...asked if they
were fake...said in a nasty tone...out at the beach guy
yelled it across the sand...are they fake...at macdonalds
yelled silicone...I was crushed and couldn't believe how
strangers could ridicule someone just like that...but it happens
I wasn't even wearing revealing tops...apart from when I was
at the beach wearing a bikini...

Just recently I had a pic up on facebook with my 800cc in a dress and you could just see the top
of my cleavage and a guy left a comment with *Pamela Anderson*
or something...I took the pic off along with his friendship

Anyway my redo ...the talking about my boobs was one factor in
reducing the size as well as the image of myself I portrayed
...I still think they are not small enough but less
obvious then before...

And guys will always throw smart arse remarks when rejected...I get them
all the time...stuff them...typical of a guy...so we are suppose to be covered up from
head to toe ?...how bout when guys have a bulge in their pants ?....shall we tell them
to cover up with a book in front...sheesh...lol

I love the way your boobs look...wish mine looked perfect like that...
Do what feels best for you because beautiful size is in the eye of the beholder...

I can't believe the nerve of some guys! YUCK! I was so bothered by this that I talked to my hubby about it. He rolled his eyes and said that a lot of guys are idiots and really immature. He also said that they were probably trying to hit on you in their stupid little way. Either way it's inapporpriate and uncalled for, but.....people say a lot of nasty things. If it wasn't your boobs, it would be something else. Some guys get especially nasty when you ignore them or shoot them down. I remember when I first got married (20 years old) guys would be so rude to me when they found out. They would say mean things about marriage and how it wouldn't last and I was too young. Now I know they were saying those things because they wanted me and I was off the market.

We gotta stick together girls and ignore those immature a$sholes!

[lauren99]

I have been in your shoes. I've seen the judgement and I bet most of us have in one form or another. I think we've already established the "haters" are to be ignored. You are beautiful and you have great boobs. That's a lot for some people to handle. That's not your fault, it's theirs.

If at some point you truly feel you are too big then you can work towards changing that. I did, but it took me 10 years. It was 10 years of loving my DD's and hating them. Ultimately, I changed them and made them smaller just a week ago and I am thrilled but I didn't change them for any "haters" and neither should you. Take some time to see how you really feel about yourself. It's sounds to me that you feel pretty good... it's other people who can't get a grip.

Honestly, the whole FB thing just pisses me off. I've heard of so much negativity on FB that I really feel like boycotting the whole thing. It gives people too much permission to invade and criticize your life rather than share and enjoy it. Oops Sorry! I really got going there!

[Sandraa]

wow hey? it's amazing how men turn into sick perverts when they see a pair of nice tits!!really,,you look amazing!!! I hope you don't let those sickos get to you..
there's this one fella at work that really wants to feel my tits and i said,,,hell no!!!! ( i thought one more nasty comment from this guy and he's Out!! im a hairstylist btw so have to look nice as my job depends on it)..but he's changed and not so bad,,coz he knows me...i'd get a restraining order next coz i don't need that! and you don't either...

[msmisty]

hon i had the same problem when i first got my girls. i just thought they were too big on my body (and it stayed this way for about 1 year). its not that they were too big, they were just too big for me. anyway...i think you just need time to really adjust to them. alot of girls on here will say that they arent too big (and its true- but alot of these girls are also going through boobie greed and dont really understand where we're coming from when we say we think they're too big because they want to go bigger). in the end...you just have to learn to love them (it took me a year but i love mines now) and in regards to that guy...he's an ass and its obvious in his email that he's hurting because of the turn down you gave him...dont let people like that get to you. you are BEAUTIFUL...and lots of girls would LOVE to look like you, and thats the honest truth.

[desirae]

Awe hun I'm sorry to hear this because I know words and what people do say can hurt pretty bad sometimes but if you love your boobs F*ck everything anyone else has to say. You look great! You are one of the reasons I chose Dr Kim for my breast augmentation! I Love your boobs and they look great on you! People are assholes. Just some things cause people to really show their true colors and brings out jealousy in the worst ways. And some men can be little bitches some times especially when their egos get wounded.

What he said reminded me of what people used to try to say (heck still say today) back in the day when a girl got raped...look at what she was wearing she was "asking for it", she dressed like a whore etc. that is such bs.

Girl, brush it off and enjoy your boobies! Put those pics back up on facebook F that dude.

[PCDAshley21]

Awww! Hunny bunny dont be sad! He's just mad because he didn't get nor will ever get a piece of that sexy booty! HUn im not sure if ur from a small town or anything, but im from Orange county , cali and well its easier to find someone with fake boobs than it is to find the real ones lol. BUT i've still gotten maybe one comment which was rude. I havent really gotten any because when i wallk down the street i have somewhat of a serious bi*chy look (so im told) . But when women (always usually between their 30's and up) stare at me ... I stop dead in my tracks face them and put my hands on my hips. They ALWAYS get embarrassed and just walk away. Now I admit I show skin. OF COURSE! I wear my push up padded bras show some cleavage, wear my little shorts with fishnets and 6" heels to the mall and im not ashamed. I get more compliments than dirty stares. Its just the attitude you show babe. Be strong dont look like something is bothering you. Be proud of ur sexy body cuz babe ur boobs look fantastic. and about ur reputation...hun people make ur reputation not u! its obvious because theyre making up what they want. Ur in the spot lot babe so bask in it! Show them it doesnt bother u because we alllllllllll know that they are super jealous. Heck im jealous of ur boobs they look great! If ur not showing so much cleavage its clear theyre just looking for something to talk about! No you dont look like a whore! you look like a super model! Dont worry babe were here if u need us. Go get'em sexy! MUAH!

[Hmmmm]

Originally Posted by Blvd756

THEN last night past midnight, this guy that I've known for a few yrs that I'm not interested in was messaging me over FB asking if I wanted to come over. There was no way- I simply do not do friends with benefits or booty call situations. I was polite about it, but clearly made my point that it wasn't going to happen, not now or ever. This was his exact response due to his bruised ego-

"I'm going to be the best friend you ever had, because I'm going to be honest with you. I've wanted to say this for a long time, but I just haven't. OK, you're not a tease. You're not a fun party girl. From the rest of the world's view, you are. Life is about marketing, and for someone as smart and as nice as you are, you're going about it all wrong.

If you want a nice guy, market yourself as a nice girl. Posting pictures with your chest out and your fake boobs exploding out of your shirt isn't going to do that. It's going to market yourself to assholes just looking to get you into the sack. You want respect, stop and think about what gets respect and what makes you look like a whore. And as a result, don't get pissy or offended when a guy advances toward the image you put off. That's not his fault, it's YOURS."

Wow. And this is why I'm a feminist.

How old is this jerk, 19? And giving you the 'benefit' of his marketing 'wisdom'? FFS, he's stuck in some notion of women can be sexy OR they can be smart, but they can't be both....and he's saying that his teeny weeny, antediluvian, pathetic little mindset is your fault?

Listen, girls with naturally big boobs get this all the time, it goes with the territory. Is it their fault for being naturally well-endowed? No. No no no. It's the guys' fault, for not respecting women as they are.

I pity, truly pity, whatever woman this guy ends up with, because whatever she does will never be right for him. Either she'll look great, and he'll think she's a whore; or she'll look dowdy, and he'll 'respect' her, but get his kicks elsewhere.

He's coming across all 'reasonable', but he's a LOSER - and a nasty, sexist loser at that.

You look gorgeous, honey. And you acted with dignity and grace. But the same as my friend who's naturally a G-cup, what you have on your chest now is a pair of loser-detectors. There *are* guys out there who will see you for the complex, intelligent person you are, who is beautiful as a bonus....but you will also get to see the jerks, because men act like women's boobs are public property, and they've got a right to comment and judge. I can totally understand how dealing with that would get you down. And if you decide that it's too much hassle, then downsizing's a reasonable thing to do. But YOU DESERVE RESPECT whether you're a aa-cup or a J-cup. And guys who don't understand that, are a waste of space and time.

[Blvd756]

The support on here is so amazing it had me in tears earlier. I wanted to thank each and every one of you for lifting me up today. I was at a point where I was just upset and insecure over my size for weeks, and now feel one thousand times better.

I love you girls. ((HUGS))

[brunettebeauty]

Hey girl, I just wanted you to know you aren't alone in dealin with these stupid people! I have been dealing with rude comments too! Like because we have boobs that gives everyone the right to discuss and criticize us????? These dumbies are gonna always be around so we just gotta try not to let them get to us. Chalk it up to horny men and jealous women!!!!

[kah]

You look amazing. We all have our own regrets. Mine is just the opposite. I wish I had gone a tad bigger. Hopefully you will start to like them.

[1267]

Hang in there...I feel like I'm just starting to regret my size and I'm only day 7 post op...

[bustersgurl]

Originally Posted by Blvd756

The support on here is so amazing it had me in tears earlier. I wanted to thank each and every one of you for lifting me up today. I was at a point where I was just upset and insecure over my size for weeks, and now feel one thousand times better.

I love you girls. ((HUGS))

We love you to, and sooo glad your feeling better! that's what we are here for.....it's nice to know your not alone

[fun2havethem]

Your pictures look great! It is not that big. I wish to get bigger myself too but doctor did not recommended to get more than 350 cc, not enough breast tissue. Some people think that I am crazy when I am saying that I want to get 500 cc next time. I just like the look of larger breast, it is very famine. After I got my breast augmentation I had 3 girl friends to go the same way just they got smaller sizes B- C and want to get bigger now. So, do not pay attention at some rude people.

[Matchbox]

You look amazing and I would do anything to be your size right now!!!! Keep your chin up and let those girls shine EVERY chance you get!

[breasts_R_fun]

Originally Posted by Blvd756

It was a string of events (sorry this is lengthy).

I think that what happened was initially, a lot of people from my hometown couldn't believe that "I" would do something like that which lead to a lot of judgement and "big" comments. They were polite enough not to be public about it but I got the emails. That didn't bother me for a long time but eventually it got to a small part of me. My sisters sometimes felt embarrassed if I had pics on Facebook with cute outfits on- they felt I'd gone too big but are now over it, thank goodness.

Friday night some drunk guy at a concert randomly tapped me on the shoulder and asked if I was wearing a push up bra. I was wearing just a strapless bra under my halter. That made me a bit upset- I must be overly sensitive lately.

THEN last night past midnight, this guy that I've known for a few yrs that I'm not interested in was messaging me over FB asking if I wanted to come over. There was no way- I simply do not do friends with benefits or booty call situations. I was polite about it, but clearly made my point that it wasn't going to happen, not now or ever. This was his exact response due to his bruised ego-

"I'm going to be the best friend you ever had, because I'm going to be honest with you. I've wanted to say this for a long time, but I just haven't. OK, you're not a tease. You're not a fun party girl. From the rest of the world's view, you are. Life is about marketing, and for someone as smart and as nice as you are, you're going about it all wrong.

If you want a nice guy, market yourself as a nice girl. Posting pictures with your chest out and your fake boobs exploding out of your shirt isn't going to do that. It's going to market yourself to assholes just looking to get you into the sack. You want respect, stop and think about what gets respect and what makes you look like a whore. And as a result, don't get pissy or offended when a guy advances toward the image you put off. That's not his fault, it's YOURS."

Girls, I have albums on FB with my friends and I when we go out and trust me they aren't bad at all. I also do NOT have pics with my boobs "exploding out of my shirt." I did have one album with Vegas pics showing a little cleavage but hell, it was VEGAS! What sort of albums am I supposed to have on FB? Me studying, working, doing errands, cleaning and working out? FB is a place to put photos of you with your friends out enjoying yourselves- I have pics of concerts, summer festivals and trips, and KNOW they are tame. I never say anything suggestive over there, do not pose in bikinis, and actually crop some photos so I'm showing LESS cleavage.

He's deleted off of my page now, and I also made some albums completely private admittedly a bit paranoid that maybe I AM sending the wrong message. It hurts a bit because I KNOW deep down, if my breasts were still a B, these photos would not have been such a big deal. When it comes down to it, no, it doesn't matter what others think but your reputation IS ultimately important, as it is a very small world. WHY should breasts affect other people's opinions of you though?? Why does it have to be this way? People are so ignorant. Live and let live.

End of rant. I really appreciate how sweet you all are, and I will get over this. I do however, really, really miss being able to wear my cute little tops and not having to defend myself if I post pics on my Facebook page, or have women glare at me on the street, or men see me as a pair of breasts.

That's all girls- honestly last night it was tough but thanks to you I feel one thousand times better. Thank you- I love you all!

i think a lot of girls would be upset and react similarly...that was mean! the good news...who cares. you look fabulous...and everybody knows it, you should know it too.

[Valentine]

ohhhh sweetie i'm soo sad, you know i have taken pictures of your boobs to my ps.
But i really afraid to make too big too!

I understand that you mean....
don't want to be only a sex symbol!!

anyway You're soooo beautiful

[Keisha]

Good to hear you're feeling better!!!!It's best not to think about it-
Everything's gonna be O.K!!!

[hw9907]

I sent you a FR, would love to see your pics.

[MissMay]

Hey babe. I just wanted to say that you look stunning. People are just jealous because they carry their own insecurities, and feel the need to take it out on someone else to make themselves feel better. Unfortunately, beautiful big breasted women usually get the brunt of the nasty comments. You look amazing, and don't let anyone tell you different. Do what makes you happy. If you feel a reduction would make you happy, go for it...but just know are lovely just the way you are and hopefully you can be happy with your current size. All the best to you my dear!