Need Ideas! Re-do!!!! Please Help

[jessiem]

Alright girlies need some ideas please........

So lately I have really really really been wanting a re-do I am almost 8months post op and really wish I was about 1-2 cup sizes larger. I did not realize the difference in natural, and enhanced breasts. The problem is DH thinks I am totally crazy and will NOT pay for another one unless like I had a rupture! (and that is not something I want to happen!) Any ideas of how I could save on the side for a re-do....I need probably about 4500.00....eeek it seems impossible I already work full time. So anyone have any ideas, or what did you do to save for your BA????

Any help would be appreciated...thanks girlies, you guys are so great, I don't know what I would do without this site.....no one understands!

[Ellie]

Hey there,

I'm sorry that you don't feel happy with your size. I paid half of mine in cash and the other half on credit card. I managed to save the money by not spending anything on myself apart from having my hair highlighted and waxes. No clothes, no bras, no unneccessary make up, no fun stuff : ( but it was worth it. Every spare penny would go into my other bank account. I have a bank account where you earn 5% interest every month if you don't withdraw anything from it and if you deposit a minimum of $10 for the month. I was putting money into that letting it earn interest and then when it came time to pay for my implants, etc I used it cause I'm allowed to withdraw it whenever I want it (with that particular account) You could look into taking a second job although you get taxed really heavily on the second job

[biggies]

What I have done...(I'm paying full cash)...is get a book
(any blank lined book) and write down the essential bills
that can't be cut...eg food...rent...then after deducting
the bills from the pay I get each week...I allow like $20 -
$30 if I need milk or bread during the week...and whatever
is left over that is what I save...

But what I did was write it all out in advance (from the starting
day to the very last day to save the final amount) (e.g. 27th May
save $250...3rd June save $120)...I worked out how long it would
take me to save that money then in the book I wrote the date...day
and amount to be saved on that day (each week) and when I saved it
(I transferred it to a high interest bank account with no card that I
specifically opened for this and so i wasn't tempted to touch it) I then
crossed it off...so far I have stuck with it and have already saved for
the surgery...and since I'm going overseas for it I have saved for the
plane ticket too...

But I made sacrifices to save the amount I saved...I quit going
out with friends...I have stayed home every weekend...stopped
buying anything for myself (only for my kids when needed)...basically
haven't had a social life for the past 2 - 3 months...and that took
a lot as I always was out on the town every weekend...

But if you want something really bad...you'll find a way to save and cut
out unnecessary luxuries (for the time being)...I could have had a social
life plus save but I wanted to have the BA fairly quickly...

It's amazing how much you realize you can save...

I probably could have explained this in a few sentences but oh well I
yap on sometimes

[Dragonomine]

Have you talked to your PS? Is he giving you a discounted price?