Do people ask to touch or see your boobs??

jamsmak04 · 06-20-2009, 04:36 PM

Okay so I have had my own mother say she wants to feel my boobs and my friend. I feel like they are still my boobs and very personal so why are they asking?? Just because I have some silicone in does not mean they are not my boobs.My husband said dont you think it would be weird for me to get a penile implant and my dad to ask to feel it, and I was like ewwww. So why is it ok for my mom and friend to ask?? I m just wondering what should do and if anyone else has experienced this?

Towsongrad · 06-20-2009, 04:44 PM

Sorry to giggle. The part about the penile implant really struck me as funny!
Well, I haven't had my B.A. yet (4 days from today...YIKES!)
But today, when I went to the YMCA and was leaving, I saw one of my friends who actually I never told I was getting a B.A...However a mutual friend of ours (who actually got a B.A. last year) I did tell and she must have told this girl.

Well, she asked if she will be able to touch and squeeze them..OUCH..after I get them. I jokingly said, SURE..Do what you want with them..hehe. But funny.

My friend who got the B.A. last year actually OFFERED me to touch them. But that was just to show me the size..since I'm having a hard time picking the size.

I don't know how I will feel when people ask if I can touch them.

OH..also, two MEN who know I'm getting them done (friends' husbands

) asked if they can touch them. I said, sure..but you may want to ask your wives first. CRAZY MEN!!!

V.M.BrownEyes · 06-20-2009, 05:15 PM

Well, my mother is naturally large breasted so she doesn't care. But I had several cousins who were interested in feeling them, neither of them has ever been large chested and both are curious about implants. My step-mother also asked. I really don't mind.

Editing to add: I used to fit bras for a living, so I have seen all of them topless and it's really not a big deal to me or to them. They are just boobs. They aren't asking to see my brazillian wax job

hairgirl · 06-20-2009, 05:22 PM

I had a couple of friends ask before my surgery if they could touch & see them when I got them & I said I wouldn't let you touch & see them now why would I let you after?! seriously their still my boobs! do people honestly think cuz we have implants that their all of a sudden not personal anymore?

Aria_cavatina · 06-20-2009, 05:29 PM

um, just guys and for the 'normal reasons'

Stephie Baby · 06-20-2009, 05:31 PM

HAHA!! Oh lord!! I work in the night life industry and I get all kinds of drunk comments about people wanting to see or touch them. Lol. Funny thing is most of the people wanting to touch them are girls. They always say how nice they are. Lol. The guys just stare at them. Theres been a few times that people have just walked up and grabbed them. I guess since they are big and bouncy now, it gives them the right to grab them. Doubt it! They get thrown out if they even try. Most of my friends havent even seen them. :-p

Rosebud11 · 06-20-2009, 06:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by hairgirl

I had a couple of friends ask before my surgery if they could touch & see them when I got them & I said I wouldn't let you touch & see them now why would I let you after?! seriously their still my boobs! do people honestly think cuz we have implants that their all of a sudden not personal anymore?

This is exactly how I feel. I don't let people touch and see my boobs now, and they won't be doing that after.

Excited · 06-20-2009, 06:14 PM

My bf's friend who is blind asked me if he could touch them b-cuz he's never felt "fake ones" before lol I said "sweetie their not fake their enhanced" & yeah if you want to but I don't think your wife would appreciate that lol! Nah I really would'nt though just b-cuz he is handicapped does'nt mean he get's a free pass!

Tonys Girl · 06-20-2009, 06:25 PM

LoL @ the penile implant analogy.

I just got mine a few days ago (I'm day 3 PO today!). A lot of people have been telling me that they want to feel them. My mom, 2 of my 3 sisters, and 1 of my close friends.

I let my mom touch the tops of them. But a for really getting a good squeeze in there, I probably won't let anyone really touch them until my incisions are healed up, my drains are out, and I'm in 0 pain.

I really don't mind people wanting to touch them; they're just curious. People hear all of these stories about breast implants feeling so hard and fake and whatnot. They're gonna be shocked when they feel how soft they can be!

Now, as for LOOKING at them, well, THAT'S another story. I really don't feel comfortable with showing any of my sisters or my mother. But who knows. That may change as time goes by.

It all depends on you and your comfort level. If the people asking to see and/or touch them are close to you, I wouldn't necessarily hold anything against them. They're just curious. And it's your preogative as to whether you actually decide to let them see/touch. Now . . . if the people asking to see/touch them aren't really that close with you (e.g. say just an acquaintance), then I'd be annoyed at their audacity to request such a thing.

Coconuts · 06-20-2009, 06:32 PM

I've asked to touch my girlfriends implants. She didn't mind. I don't think I will mind either but not just for anyone. For my curious girlfriends? No problem.

DesireBoobs · 06-20-2009, 06:43 PM

I am comfortable with the idea of people touching my enhanced breasts.

I have had the chance to touch other girls, and they are the reason that I am getting mine! I think people have this perception that fake breasts always feel fake, so I would have no problem allowing (some) people touch mine.

However, I know that I am a lot more liberal than many of the girls on here...

krissy83 · 06-20-2009, 07:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DesireBoobs

I think people have this perception that fake breasts always feel fake, so I would have no problem allowing (some) people touch mine.

Totally agree. I dont think i could count the amount of chicks that have touched mine. As for guys tho i couldnt count how many have asked just to get turned down. Most girls r just curious and ummm well boys just wanna see some boobs!

However as for showing them thats a diff story. Close friends, sisters etc i have shown. But then i dont have any problem getting down to a g with them present when im getting dressed.

Boobs are boobs as far as i'm concerned. And if ya got it.... flaunt it!

Poppy0421 · 06-20-2009, 07:49 PM

I have only had 1 freind ask me and it was a g/f i am not that close to and is more a friend of a friend! i was shocked and said yes, so she poked the top bit and ran of squeeling! not the best reaction!!!!

Angel123 · 06-20-2009, 07:56 PM

I don't think it's weird and I think girls are different then guys in that way. We're more touchy-feely. Hug, link arms, paint eachothers toenails, I don't know. I've had 2 girlfriends ask me if I wanted to touch them and I said sure. I just kinda poked at them - it felt like a boob. I'm sure people will ask me, and I don't really care. But I wouldn't let any boys do it other then my husband.

Nadi345 · 06-20-2009, 07:56 PM

For starters, a penis is a lot more "vulgur" of a body part than breasts... so the comparison is a bit creepy (lol!)...

I haven't gotten my boob job yet, BUT I am guilty of approaching women who look like they've had a boob job and asking them about it. Usually they offer for me to touch them. I've done a lot of "hands on" research to help me pick the perfect implant (including going to strip clubs!).

lynn80 · 06-20-2009, 08:02 PM

I have showed my close friends (they showed me theirs before my breast augmentation) & my close friend asked to feel them cause she has saline and wants to switch to silicone. When it comes to girls that I am close with, I really don't mind, maybe because it is not a sexual thing. Otherwise as far as men, just my husband.

No way would my mom be touching them, that is weird..but we aren't close either.

jamsmak04 · 06-20-2009, 08:03 PM

Dont get me wrong. My gf is totally fine, I have known her since we were 3 yrs old. She has seen me naked more times then I can count so letting her squeeze and see them does not bug me. Its mostly my mom, like its my mom and its creepy and unnatural to me. But it would be the day when I just let anybody touch them like they are my boobs, if they werent private then why do we have to wear tops and men dont. But its my mom that bugs me, they are for my husband to touch not my mom ya know. I am just a really personal and private person.

Barbara Ann · 06-20-2009, 08:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Nadi345

For starters, a penis is a lot more "vulgur" of a body part than breasts... so the comparison is a bit creepy (lol!)...

hum, never thought of a penis as "vulgur".

As for people wanting to feel "enhanced" boobs, it's just out of curiosity. They just wonder if they look and feel like the "unenhanced".

jamsmak04 · 06-20-2009, 08:10 PM

Yeah I just saw that. A penis vulgur ??? NOPE I dont think so. But yeah people are so used to hearing they are hard and dont move so just curious I suppose

Bam · 06-20-2009, 08:11 PM

I showed my sister, she didn't even ask to see them, lol. Then I went over to my best friends and as soon as I came in I was like "wanna see them?". Then I think she asked if she could touch them and I didn't mind. Other than people I really know, unless it is a girl who is thinking about getting them herself, I think it would be strange for random people to grab me. :^)

06-20-2009, 04:36 PM	#1
jamsmak04 Join Date: May 2009 Posts: 1,297 Thanks: 312 Thanked 440 Times in 394 Posts	Do people ask to touch or see your boobs?? Okay so I have had my own mother say she wants to feel my boobs and my friend. I feel like they are still my boobs and very personal so why are they asking?? Just because I have some silicone in does not mean they are not my boobs.My husband said dont you think it would be weird for me to get a penile implant and my dad to ask to feel it, and I was like ewwww. So why is it ok for my mom and friend to ask?? I m just wondering what should do and if anyone else has experienced this?

06-20-2009, 05:15 PM	#3
V.M.BrownEyes Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Denmark Posts: 599 Thanks: 12 Thanked 371 Times in 241 Posts	Well, my mother is naturally large breasted so she doesn't care. But I had several cousins who were interested in feeling them, neither of them has ever been large chested and both are curious about implants. My step-mother also asked. I really don't mind. Editing to add: I used to fit bras for a living, so I have seen all of them topless and it's really not a big deal to me or to them. They are just boobs. They aren't asking to see my brazillian wax job __________________ breast augmentation date: March 26, 2008 Pre breast augmentation: B cup at best 740cc anatomical gummies, partial under Size postBA: DDD/E FR acceptance only if you have pics of your own up*

06-20-2009, 05:22 PM	#4
hairgirl "Life ain't always beautiful, but it's a beautiful ride" Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: arizona Posts: 642 Thanks: 104 Thanked 252 Times in 221 Posts	I had a couple of friends ask before my surgery if they could touch & see them when I got them & I said I wouldn't let you touch & see them now why would I let you after?! seriously their still my boobs! do people honestly think cuz we have implants that their all of a sudden not personal anymore? __________________ DR. MEGER 5'7 135lbs 36 saggy a/b 36DDD 500hp silicone/full anchor lift, aereola reduction YOU MUST SEND A NOTE 1ST & be getting or already have a lift

06-20-2009, 05:31 PM	#6
Stephie Baby Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Chicago Illinois Posts: 77 Thanks: 19 Thanked 10 Times in 10 Posts	HAHA!! Oh lord!! I work in the night life industry and I get all kinds of drunk comments about people wanting to see or touch them. Lol. Funny thing is most of the people wanting to touch them are girls. They always say how nice they are. Lol. The guys just stare at them. Theres been a few times that people have just walked up and grabbed them. I guess since they are big and bouncy now, it gives them the right to grab them. Doubt it! They get thrown out if they even try. Most of my friends havent even seen them. :-p __________________ Christopher Pelletiere, MD

06-20-2009, 06:25 PM	#9
Tonys Girl Join Date: May 2008 Location: Metro New Jersey/NY Posts: 587 Thanks: 410 Thanked 241 Times in 163 Posts	LoL @ the penile implant analogy. I just got mine a few days ago (I'm day 3 PO today!). A lot of people have been telling me that they want to feel them. My mom, 2 of my 3 sisters, and 1 of my close friends. I let my mom touch the tops of them. But a for really getting a good squeeze in there, I probably won't let anyone really touch them until my incisions are healed up, my drains are out, and I'm in 0 pain. I really don't mind people wanting to touch them; they're just curious. People hear all of these stories about breast implants feeling so hard and fake and whatnot. They're gonna be shocked when they feel how soft they can be! Now, as for LOOKING at them, well, THAT'S another story. I really don't feel comfortable with showing any of my sisters or my mother. But who knows. That may change as time goes by. It all depends on you and your comfort level. If the people asking to see and/or touch them are close to you, I wouldn't necessarily hold anything against them. They're just curious. And it's your preogative as to whether you actually decide to let them see/touch. Now . . . if the people asking to see/touch them aren't really that close with you (e.g. say just an acquaintance), then I'd be annoyed at their audacity to request such a thing. __________________ Dr. Adam Kolker

06-20-2009, 04:44 PM	#2
Towsongrad Join Date: May 2009 Location: Elkton, Maryland Posts: 376 Thanks: 258 Thanked 77 Times in 63 Posts	Sorry to giggle. The part about the penile implant really struck me as funny! Well, I haven't had my B.A. yet (4 days from today...YIKES!) But today, when I went to the YMCA and was leaving, I saw one of my friends who actually I never told I was getting a B.A...However a mutual friend of ours (who actually got a B.A. last year) I did tell and she must have told this girl. Well, she asked if she will be able to touch and squeeze them..OUCH..after I get them. I jokingly said, SURE..Do what you want with them..hehe. But funny. My friend who got the B.A. last year actually OFFERED me to touch them. But that was just to show me the size..since I'm having a hard time picking the size. I don't know how I will feel when people ask if I can touch them. OH..also, two MEN who know I'm getting them done (friends' husbands ) asked if they can touch them. I said, sure..but you may want to ask your wives first. CRAZY MEN!!!

06-20-2009, 05:29 PM	#5
Aria_cavatina Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Austin, Texas Posts: 398 Thanks: 524 Thanked 126 Times in 107 Posts	um, just guys and for the 'normal reasons'

06-20-2009, 06:14 PM	#8
Excited Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 1,570 Thanks: 320 Thanked 652 Times in 582 Posts	My bf's friend who is blind asked me if he could touch them b-cuz he's never felt "fake ones" before lol I said "sweetie their not fake their enhanced" & yeah if you want to but I don't think your wife would appreciate that lol! Nah I really would'nt though just b-cuz he is handicapped does'nt mean he get's a free pass!

06-20-2009, 06:32 PM	#10
Coconuts Join Date: May 2009 Location: Ontario Posts: 477 Thanks: 93 Thanked 208 Times in 196 Posts	I've asked to touch my girlfriends implants. She didn't mind. I don't think I will mind either but not just for anyone. For my curious girlfriends? No problem. __________________

06-20-2009, 06:43 PM	#11
DesireBoobs Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Pasco, Washington Posts: 74 Thanks: 8 Thanked 27 Times in 26 Posts	I am comfortable with the idea of people touching my enhanced breasts. I have had the chance to touch other girls, and they are the reason that I am getting mine! I think people have this perception that fake breasts always feel fake, so I would have no problem allowing (some) people touch mine. However, I know that I am a lot more liberal than many of the girls on here...

06-20-2009, 07:49 PM	#13
Poppy0421 Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Adelaide, Australia Posts: 23 Thanks: 18 Thanked 5 Times in 4 Posts	I have only had 1 freind ask me and it was a g/f i am not that close to and is more a friend of a friend! i was shocked and said yes, so she poked the top bit and ran of squeeling! not the best reaction!!!!

06-20-2009, 07:56 PM	#14
Angel123 I love my new boobies!!! Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Washington Posts: 610 Thanks: 150 Thanked 155 Times in 146 Posts	I don't think it's weird and I think girls are different then guys in that way. We're more touchy-feely. Hug, link arms, paint eachothers toenails, I don't know. I've had 2 girlfriends ask me if I wanted to touch them and I said sure. I just kinda poked at them - it felt like a boob. I'm sure people will ask me, and I don't really care. But I wouldn't let any boys do it other then my husband. __________________ Height: 5'7 Weight: 131 lb. Pre-breast augmentation: Full A? Post-breast augmentation: 32E or 32DD! Implant: 500 Mod+ saline unders

06-20-2009, 07:56 PM	#15
Nadi345 Finally got my boobs...! Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Boston, Massachusetts Posts: 373 Thanks: 130 Thanked 136 Times in 105 Posts	For starters, a penis is a lot more "vulgur" of a body part than breasts... so the comparison is a bit creepy (lol!)... I haven't gotten my boob job yet, BUT I am guilty of approaching women who look like they've had a boob job and asking them about it. Usually they offer for me to touch them. I've done a lot of "hands on" research to help me pick the perfect implant (including going to strip clubs!). __________________ 5' 7.5" 145 lbs. 500 cc Silicone mod + Areola Incision Pre breast augmentation: 36B Post breast augmentation: 36D Date: July 18, 2009... FINALLY! I LOVE THIS WEBSITE!!! *Ladies! Not to be a stickler, but please send me a message before adding me*

06-20-2009, 08:02 PM	#16
lynn80 Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Massachusetts Posts: 210 Thanks: 24 Thanked 76 Times in 61 Posts	I have showed my close friends (they showed me theirs before my breast augmentation) & my close friend asked to feel them cause she has saline and wants to switch to silicone. When it comes to girls that I am close with, I really don't mind, maybe because it is not a sexual thing. Otherwise as far as men, just my husband. No way would my mom be touching them, that is weird..but we aren't close either. Last edited by lynn80; 06-20-2009 at 08:21 PM. Reason: clarification

06-20-2009, 08:03 PM	#17
jamsmak04 Join Date: May 2009 Posts: 1,297 Thanks: 312 Thanked 440 Times in 394 Posts	Dont get me wrong. My gf is totally fine, I have known her since we were 3 yrs old. She has seen me naked more times then I can count so letting her squeeze and see them does not bug me. Its mostly my mom, like its my mom and its creepy and unnatural to me. But it would be the day when I just let anybody touch them like they are my boobs, if they werent private then why do we have to wear tops and men dont. But its my mom that bugs me, they are for my husband to touch not my mom ya know. I am just a really personal and private person.

06-20-2009, 08:10 PM	#19
jamsmak04 Join Date: May 2009 Posts: 1,297 Thanks: 312 Thanked 440 Times in 394 Posts	Yeah I just saw that. A penis vulgur ??? NOPE I dont think so. But yeah people are so used to hearing they are hard and dont move so just curious I suppose

06-20-2009, 08:11 PM	#20
Bam Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Austin, Texas Posts: 283 Thanks: 10 Thanked 71 Times in 69 Posts	I showed my sister, she didn't even ask to see them, lol. Then I went over to my best friends and as soon as I came in I was like "wanna see them?". Then I think she asked if she could touch them and I didn't mind. Other than people I really know, unless it is a girl who is thinking about getting them herself, I think it would be strange for random people to grab me. :^) __________________ -

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