stressing about the future

[jamiec3]

Ive heard of the whole freak out right before you augmentation thinking my small tata's are just fine, what the heck and I doing, what if something goes wrong, etc. But I have gone to two consultations and chooose my ps. No I havent set a date yet but I am thinking early november. Yet I have tons of dream about things going wrong, or wakign up in the middle of the night thinking Im ok being flat chested I can live this way and be ok. Yet once I fully wake up I 100% want a breast augmentation. I cant imagine whats going to happen once I set a date Im afraid I am going to chicken out or regret getting a breast augmentation. Anyone else in my shoes or am I the only freak?!?!? ha ha ha

[klayco17]

i feel the same way! i think its because i hype myself about it to much. I havent picked my PS yet, but hopefully i will after this weekend. =). I hoping to get them done in early october, but sometimes i do ask those questions what if's ya know. I think its only normal to. youll be fine girl =)

[Destiny]

Absolutely natural..for the first time.
Once it is done and you have a perfect/bigger set of girls,you will wonder why you wiated so long!
And if you think you are on an emotional roller coaster now.....wait until 'THE morning' right before,LOL!!!

ALL WORTHT IT IMO!
Just a part of a very happy experience!

Destiny

[Playful1314]

Girl I think everyone on JBI has the same issue! lol

[twiggy1985]

I too am going through what you're going through...the only thing that is getting me through it is telling myself

*This is a risk, yes...but it will be worth it.

*Also, so many women here have had it done and lived to be happy & healthy.

*It's worth the risk to me so i'm staying gun-ho!

Try not to research too much it'll only make it worse

[BV0405]

I still feel that way..but then I want it to be here. Sometimes I think..what the heck am I doing?! But then I remember that my PS is a genius and I have to trust him. You are def. not crazy! Im sure we have all felt like this at one point or another

[Misty]

The thing that will be even worse than you feeling right now is if you book a date, then chicken out. Think how you will feel the day after. You will defintely be feeling worse than you are right now, cause you could have had boobs. Everyone gets nervous and stresses before, but once it's over, you wonder why you stressed so much. Just focus on how much you want them and you will be fine.

[Coconuts]

I question if I'm making the right decision too. Especially since I like my boobs already. I could totally live with the boobs I have since I've been fine with them for the past 30 years. But I want them bigger now.
I kinda look at it like, I'm closing the door to one chapter of my life, the way that I look now and I'm opening the door to a new chapter of my life with bigger boobies.
I wasn't as nervous after I read some girls say your boobs don't change they just get bigger. Also, complications can be fixed if any should arise.
If you book your appointment and then chicken out, chances are you'll just be booking another appointment in the future anyway.
Good luck and think positive!!!

[beachbody31]

I remember thinking the same thing. I was worried about the anesthesia. I had a leg surgery and everything went just fine. I like the part that you just feel like you blinked and then you were are waking up. That's so weird to me.

Then I worried about the recovery and having kids soon after and all that. BUT other than the third day,of waking up in pain (It was just nerve pain) my recovery is going great. I am actually surprised. I am 6 days post op and other than some pectoral and incision pain I am doing good. So I wouldn't worry too much, just makes sure you have some help those first few days and take it easy! I over did it then day before the major pains I had.

[beachbody31]

OH, I liked mine before that's for sure. 30 years too... I had just had some weight loss and after kids they were not the same, but the shape and nipples (place and size, etc) were really nice. (thanks mom) (I have pics up.) TMI?? lol

ANYWAYS,
So you know what I have noticed if you have a NICE shape before, lookout after, they get even better!

[Barbara Ann]

It's totally normal to have these feelings and thoughts. I remember having them before and after my breast augmentation, though just for a short time.

Before my breast augmentation when I would get these thoughts, I would redirect my thoughts to the REASONs I was choosing to get a breast augmentation.

After my breast augmentation, I would look at my before pics and realize how much more lovelier my breasts look and looked at others, knowing that mine would drop and fluff and be beautiful in a few month's.

It's definitely a life changing event but you have to be comfortable that the benefits outweigh the risks.

Good luck!

[Nadi345]

I know how you feel! I went back and forth for months wondering if I was just being crazy in thinking I needed to cut open and mame my perfectly fine boobs... I postponed my surgery because of it (well, partially so). All in all I realized I'd be happier with it than without and so I went through with it and now my boobs are beautiful! My only issue is shopping has become a bit harder!

[heatkc]

I agree with the ladies. It is definately something that most women who are contemplating a breast augmentation go through. I felt the same way. The good thing is once I picked my PS and booked the date I have not really had those feelings. I think once I made the committment and paid the cash money then I knew I couldn't back out. I made my decision and I am sticking with it. Now I am enjoying getting excited and preparing for my big day.

Good luck girl.