They fit your body perfectly!

apee · 11-06-2009, 06:44 PM

OK so I'm not complaining, well hell I guess I am but where else can I complain about something so ridiculous than here, where I know I will have a handful of women who are wonderful and understand! Since I got my BA I've gotten a lot of people telling me that they look like they fit my body/frame great. This is a compliment I know but why does it make me feel fat? I'm not tiny but I am small at 5'4 125. I got 550 hp, which seems big but maybe they don't look that big on me? I wanted them to fit my body, as I had DD's before kids and I have DD/DDD now. BUt whenever someone says that I feel fat, like secretly they are thinking "She needed bigger boobs to even out the rest of her" I KNOW this sounds RIDICULOUS so why does this even enter my brain. I guess if they were c/d cup I would be ok with people saying this and I am sure if someone said OMG they look so huge on you, I would be SO offended. Why does this bother me? I know it should make me feel good. Am I that hard to please? Anyone else have conflicting feelings when they get BA comments? Like I know someone is trying to give me a compliment so why am I reading into it too much? OH well. Thanks for letting me rant a bit.

tranner · 11-06-2009, 07:04 PM

Why??? Probably because society programs women from the onset.
There is a solution though! Start loving every bit of yourself now. Get really comfortable in that skin of yours and, I PROMISE YOU... a compliment will be just that to you

And even better... a negative will slide off of you with no effect except to make the person that delivered it to you look bad.
It all starts with your internal dialog, we all continually have snippets of conversation with ourselves in our head, you know... when you look in the mirror, you mentally say "my thighs look big" or something like that, instead be conscious of it and every time you catch yourself thinking a negative, over-rule it with a positive... in time you will believe and actually BE all of those good things you tell yourself. Amazingly, in time the rest of the world will get on board too!!!

Coconuts · 11-06-2009, 07:07 PM

If it bothers you it's maybe because you might be feeling a little uncomfortable about your weight. Although, at 5'4 and 125 pounds, you sound like a fine weight to me. We're always toughest on ourselves though. Our own worst critic. Women definitely need to be less hard on themselves. (Me included!)

Anita06 · 11-06-2009, 07:11 PM

Maybe all they are trying to say is that they look good and suit you well.

gyddieupquirt · 11-06-2009, 07:16 PM

I checked out your pics, and I think you look awesome. Fat should not even enter your mind sweetie.

NA2009 · 11-06-2009, 07:24 PM

I think you reading too much into what people say. Take what they say as a compliment! I think that we women as so hard on ourselves. Besides, I have similar stats and I think I have a good proportion.

bunnygirl · 11-06-2009, 08:06 PM

Don't be so hard on yourself. Take it as a compliment. But, if you're caught up on your weight (which you really shouldn't be), then it's going to weigh down on your mind. Look at yourself in a positive light, girl!

apee · 11-07-2009, 12:58 AM

Thanks all, I feel pretty comfortable with my weight I'm pretty athletic I think that was what was bothering me. I feel small, but when people say that I think maybe I am not as small as I feel. I know they are trying to give a compliment. It's just those thoughts that enter your mind that you cannot help and a little bit of a vent haha. I'm very pleased with my results

unsure · 11-07-2009, 12:59 AM

It's easy to read into what people say! However, you look great, and I think what people probably mean is that they fit your body as opposed to being overly huge like some people think of when they picture breast implants. I actually think it's truly a compliment, like, "Oh! Those really look nice!"

We are our worst enemies! But, seriously, I don't think anyone is meaning that you look fat. You truly look great!

klayco17 · 11-07-2009, 01:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gyddieupquirt

I checked out your pics, and I think you look awesome. Fat should not even enter your mind sweetie.

Same here! you look great girl!

looking4bigger · 11-07-2009, 05:46 AM

what others think is none of our business. who cares if they think youy look fat or if they think you look great it is what you think that matters...

I think you look great after all that oo by they way but that shouldnt matter either hehe

sparklegirl · 11-07-2009, 08:05 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by apee

OK so I'm not complaining, well hell I guess I am but where else can I complain about something so ridiculous than here, where I know I will have a handful of women who are wonderful and understand! Since I got my BA I've gotten a lot of people telling me that they look like they fit my body/frame great. This is a compliment I know but why does it make me feel fat? I'm not tiny but I am small at 5'4 125. I got 550 hp, which seems big but maybe they don't look that big on me? I wanted them to fit my body, as I had DD's before kids and I have DD/DDD now. BUt whenever someone says that I feel fat, like secretly they are thinking "She needed bigger boobs to even out the rest of her" I KNOW this sounds RIDICULOUS so why does this even enter my brain. I guess if they were c/d cup I would be ok with people saying this and I am sure if someone said OMG they look so huge on you, I would be SO offended. Why does this bother me? I know it should make me feel good. Am I that hard to please? Anyone else have conflicting feelings when they get BA comments? Like I know someone is trying to give me a compliment so why am I reading into it too much? OH well. Thanks for letting me rant a bit.

Girrrrl.......you are soooo not fat!!!! You look FANTASTIC!!!!!! You should be THRILLED with your results!!!! Take the compliment and ruuuuuuuunnnnnnn with it!!!!!

I'm 5'5 and 150lbs........I must be HUGEEEEEEE hahahahahaha!!! How I would LOVEEEEE to drop 25lbs and be at 125......I just LOVE to eat to much!!! Hahahha......Don't dwell on it.......You look ABSOLUTLEY AMAZING!!!!!!

cazza · 11-07-2009, 09:26 AM

Ha ha ha ha I know exactly what you mean! LOL! Like someone saying, "wow, you look healthy!" I immediately think: FAT!

So messed up, lol.

Like unsure said above, I think the complimenters are just saying that you didn't go top heavy and that your boobs look really good on you. My friends, when I told them I was getting my BA, got wide-eyed and said, "Don't go too big!" I'm sure when they see my results they'll think, "phew, she looks good! I was afraid she'd look ridiculous" and they'll say out loud, "wow, they really suit your frame!"

11-06-2009, 06:44 PM	#1
apee Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Redlands, ca Posts: 180 Thanks: 49 Thanked 68 Times in 64 Posts	They fit your body perfectly! OK so I'm not complaining, well hell I guess I am but where else can I complain about something so ridiculous than here, where I know I will have a handful of women who are wonderful and understand! Since I got my BA I've gotten a lot of people telling me that they look like they fit my body/frame great. This is a compliment I know but why does it make me feel fat? I'm not tiny but I am small at 5'4 125. I got 550 hp, which seems big but maybe they don't look that big on me? I wanted them to fit my body, as I had DD's before kids and I have DD/DDD now. BUt whenever someone says that I feel fat, like secretly they are thinking "She needed bigger boobs to even out the rest of her" I KNOW this sounds RIDICULOUS so why does this even enter my brain. I guess if they were c/d cup I would be ok with people saying this and I am sure if someone said OMG they look so huge on you, I would be SO offended. Why does this bother me? I know it should make me feel good. Am I that hard to please? Anyone else have conflicting feelings when they get BA comments? Like I know someone is trying to give me a compliment so why am I reading into it too much? OH well. Thanks for letting me rant a bit. __________________ Surgery date October 1st! Pre BA 34 deflated D 550 High Profile both sides silicone Post BA ? Oh boy I think they are gonna be huge!

11-06-2009, 07:04 PM	#2
tranner Look to THIS day...for it IS life! Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Oakville Ontario Posts: 350 Thanks: 154 Thanked 258 Times in 174 Posts	Why??? Probably because society programs women from the onset. There is a solution though! Start loving every bit of yourself now. Get really comfortable in that skin of yours and, I PROMISE YOU... a compliment will be just that to you And even better... a negative will slide off of you with no effect except to make the person that delivered it to you look bad. It all starts with your internal dialog, we all continually have snippets of conversation with ourselves in our head, you know... when you look in the mirror, you mentally say "my thighs look big" or something like that, instead be conscious of it and every time you catch yourself thinking a negative, over-rule it with a positive... in time you will believe and actually BE all of those good things you tell yourself. Amazingly, in time the rest of the world will get on board too!!! __________________ 47 years young 5'4", 120 lbs 20 years of amazing love from my Hubby Mom to two breastfed kids Surgery Date: July 22, 2009 Pre BA 34A - Post BA 34 C/Small D 360 gm Natrelle shaped Gels "Overs" "Why didn't I do this sooner?"

11-06-2009, 07:07 PM	#3
Coconuts Join Date: May 2009 Location: Ontario Posts: 270 Thanks: 34 Thanked 97 Times in 96 Posts	If it bothers you it's maybe because you might be feeling a little uncomfortable about your weight. Although, at 5'4 and 125 pounds, you sound like a fine weight to me. We're always toughest on ourselves though. Our own worst critic. Women definitely need to be less hard on themselves. (Me included!) __________________

11-06-2009, 07:11 PM	#4
Anita06 Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Brisbane, Queensland Posts: 351 Thanks: 206 Thanked 140 Times in 118 Posts	Maybe all they are trying to say is that they look good and suit you well. __________________ 24 y.o 5'6 27.5' rib cage Pre BA: 32/34 B Post BA: now 32DD/E (originally was hoping for full C/small D, but love my current size) 325 cc silicone overs

11-06-2009, 07:16 PM	#5
gyddieupquirt Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: IL Posts: 178 Thanks: 12 Thanked 84 Times in 56 Posts	I checked out your pics, and I think you look awesome. Fat should not even enter your mind sweetie. __________________ pre-op 30/32B post-op 30G 450cc silicone gel mods overs surgery date 04-04-2009 FR will not be accepted to ppl with no pics and/or few or no posts

11-06-2009, 07:24 PM	#6
NA2009 Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Plano, Texas Posts: 20 Thanks: 10 Thanked 3 Times in 3 Posts	I think you reading too much into what people say. Take what they say as a compliment! I think that we women as so hard on ourselves. Besides, I have similar stats and I think I have a good proportion. __________________ 5'4'' 130 lbs Mom to three Pre BA: small B Post BA: hoped for a full C, but got a D BA 10/1 - 375 cc mod plus under

11-06-2009, 08:06 PM	#7
bunnygirl Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Boston, Massachusetts Posts: 172 Thanks: 35 Thanked 58 Times in 56 Posts	Don't be so hard on yourself. Take it as a compliment. But, if you're caught up on your weight (which you really shouldn't be), then it's going to weigh down on your mind. Look at yourself in a positive light, girl! __________________ 20 y/o 108 lbs 5'3" Pre BA 34A Post BA ? 300cc Saline Unders Moderate Profile Periareola incisions... coming January 5th 2010!!!!

11-07-2009, 12:58 AM	#8
apee Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Redlands, ca Posts: 180 Thanks: 49 Thanked 68 Times in 64 Posts	Thanks all, I feel pretty comfortable with my weight I'm pretty athletic I think that was what was bothering me. I feel small, but when people say that I think maybe I am not as small as I feel. I know they are trying to give a compliment. It's just those thoughts that enter your mind that you cannot help and a little bit of a vent haha. I'm very pleased with my results __________________ Surgery date October 1st! Pre BA 34 deflated D 550 High Profile both sides silicone Post BA ? Oh boy I think they are gonna be huge!

11-07-2009, 12:59 AM	#9
unsure Finally did it! Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Chandler, Arizona Posts: 98 Thanks: 66 Thanked 54 Times in 38 Posts	It's easy to read into what people say! However, you look great, and I think what people probably mean is that they fit your body as opposed to being overly huge like some people think of when they picture breast implants. I actually think it's truly a compliment, like, "Oh! Those really look nice!" We are our worst enemies! But, seriously, I don't think anyone is meaning that you look fat. You truly look great!

11-07-2009, 05:46 AM	#11
looking4bigger Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Melbourne Victoria Posts: 97 Thanks: 18 Thanked 35 Times in 29 Posts	what others think is none of our business. who cares if they think youy look fat or if they think you look great it is what you think that matters... I think you look great after all that oo by they way but that shouldnt matter either hehe

11-07-2009, 09:26 AM	#13
cazza Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Toronto, Ontario Posts: 126 Thanks: 93 Thanked 40 Times in 35 Posts	Ha ha ha ha I know exactly what you mean! LOL! Like someone saying, "wow, you look healthy!" I immediately think: FAT! So messed up, lol. Like unsure said above, I think the complimenters are just saying that you didn't go top heavy and that your boobs look really good on you. My friends, when I told them I was getting my BA, got wide-eyed and said, "Don't go too big!" I'm sure when they see my results they'll think, "phew, she looks good! I was afraid she'd look ridiculous" and they'll say out loud, "wow, they really suit your frame!" __________________ Height: 5'10" Weight: 115 day of surgery. wtf? Ribcage: 27-28 Pre BA: 32A -little tissue BWD: 12.5 Getting: 354cc textured Mod+! Hopefully I get to a full C! [url=http://www.TickerFactory.com/]

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