Feeling unsupported and depressed..

[2bigdogs]

Originally Posted by ladydraggin5302

oh oh oh.... I got the this is on you speech too, my man is very conserative and comes from a wealthy family and I am opossite I tried asking him to help me pick size etc... asked if I was doing the right this etc...

he finally said and I wquote because I will never forget it hurt my heart....
"do what you want jamie I dont want any say so I don't have any opinion I dont want to hear about it I don't care... you pick and make the decision if you want them fine I will be on board if you don't fine im on board with that to...pick your size pick your doc. don't include me until you book your surgery then tell me the day and time and I will take you... if anything happens and you hate them or they are ugly or you get sick I want this to be all on you I don't want any of the blame this way I can say I told you so"

he really said all that so welcome to my world...he held up to his end of the bargian and secretely I still have a broken heart from him not caring

I don't think they realize how deeply what they say affects us. AT ALL. I'm trying not to hold these hurt feelings against him too much or to let my frustration bleed over into other areas, but I feel the same way. It's heart breaking when they distance themselves like that. Yes, the decision is ours, but it's for US.

[2bigdogs]

Originally Posted by WildBerry

What children our men can become when the focus is NOT on them

I couldn't have said it better myself. If it's not about them, they throw temper tantrums. Good thing I don't have actual children to take care of too. Too much!