Mini Vent

rae_rae21 · 10-22-2009, 06:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Genie

Oh gosh. This topic probably pissed me off more than anything!! I've shared with a few friends that I'm going to 950cc & the reactions I've gotten have made me so furious! I've gotten reactions like "You're gonna look more like a porn star than you already do!" or "OMG you're gonna regret that when your older." or "You're just crazy-why would you even want to go that big?" Some of the reactions are from men but most come from female friends I have. I secretly wonder if they're jealous of how FABOLOUS my new boobies will be. I hate the stereotype that women with large breasts should be porn stars or strippers. It gives the impression that "Ewww porn stars & strippers are gross." They're women just like all of us who have chosen a profession not chosen by most. I think it would take TONS of confidence to be a porn star or a stripper & I strive to be that confident in my everyday life! Wooo...sorry for the vent ladies! This gets me riled up!!!

Yeah, you gotta love the "I don't wanna look like a stripper!" line...<rolls eyes> One of my very good friends is frickin gorgeous and is currently going to school for her Master's Degree AND also happens to be an exotic dancer on the side until she graduates...BIG DEAL...and her boobs just so happen to be real...freaking stereotypes are absolutly riduculous.

me2202 · 10-22-2009, 08:33 PM

Some people even with breast augmentation's are still judgemental about the whole breast augmentation thing and i think they project their feelings of self doubt and shame onto others sometimes thinking it is justified. When really its not. No matter what size implants you have you have them generally to make yourself feel better noone else, So people who make such comments should go jump. Mine arent huge and I have to say I think people who can go that bit bigger, tend to look great and have self confidence. SO all in all tell em to jump and get a f**& life.

me2202 · 10-22-2009, 08:45 PM

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Originally Posted by apee

I get a little hurt when people say "I just don't want to look ridiculous" I've seen that one on this forum twice in the last 2 days. Oh well I don't take it personal, we all have different ideas of beauty. You look great by the way!!!

I said I dont want to look ridiculous but had nothing to do with what anyone else looked like, I think majority of people look fantastic you and all those who have posted here so far included, What I meant by it was I didnt want to the look like one up and one down. that was my major concern when I said riduculous that I would have complications. some choice of words used by some may not be right in what they are trying to say. But as i havent seen how used can only say sorry if was me as that was my meaning. (not writen in last few days though)

cali74 · 10-22-2009, 11:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Genie

Oh gosh. This topic probably pissed me off more than anything!! I've shared with a few friends that I'm going to 950cc & the reactions I've gotten have made me so furious! I've gotten reactions like "You're gonna look more like a porn star than you already do!" or "OMG you're gonna regret that when your older." or "You're just crazy-why would you even want to go that big?" Some of the reactions are from men but most come from female friends I have. I secretly wonder if they're jealous of how FABOLOUS my new boobies will be. I hate the stereotype that women with large breasts should be porn stars or strippers. It gives the impression that "Ewww porn stars & strippers are gross." They're women just like all of us who have chosen a profession not chosen by most. I think it would take TONS of confidence to be a porn star or a stripper & I strive to be that confident in my everyday life! Wooo...sorry for the vent ladies! This gets me riled up!!!

I couldn't say it any better than you did girl!

tabby15208 · 10-23-2009, 12:13 AM

Agreed- to all of it! What makes it okay to judge or be rude to ANYONE who gets a breast augmentation? Especially coming from a woman who has gotten a breast augmentation! Where do you draw the line- and why should there be a line? It's okay to get 300cc implants, but "don't go too big!" Some people judge all women who get a breast augmentation...how would they feel if someone slammed them simply because they had this surgery. Sheesh!

Also I agree on the stripper/porn star thing...I've met some wonderful women on here who were stippers and/or pornstars...and they were pretty kick-@ss girls- as well as normal people! How offensive. So now we can put on the list of "not okay" things to do- work in the adult industry, or get over a certain cc implant. Why not just keep going and make harsh, unnecessary judgmental comments about everyone!?!?!

OK done ranting- but I LOVE this forum cause we're not like that!!!!!

Genie · 10-23-2009, 02:17 AM

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Originally Posted by rae_rae21

Yeah, you gotta love the "I don't wanna look like a stripper!" line...<rolls eyes> One of my very good friends is frickin gorgeous and is currently going to school for her Master's Degree AND also happens to be an exotic dancer on the side until she graduates...BIG DEAL...and her boobs just so happen to be real...freaking stereotypes are absolutly riduculous.

Yep starting grad school for my Masters degree in Jan. One of my good friends had the nerve to tell me that I "an absolutely crazy" for going so big & said: "Well what are you going to do when you get older? You're NOT going to want to have these big, huge boobs. And don't you want to look professional when you get done getting your degree? You're NOT going to be taken seriously if you have big boobs. Etc." I could've hit her. WHO says we can't look professional having big boobs?!? It's called COVERING THEM UP while @ work. Big boobies are easily downplayed. AAAGHHH! Ladies, WHY are ppl so stupid sometimes?!

Genie · 10-23-2009, 02:18 AM

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Originally Posted by tabby15208

Agreed- to all of it! What makes it okay to judge or be rude to ANYONE who gets a breast augmentation? Especially coming from a woman who has gotten a breast augmentation! Where do you draw the line- and why should there be a line? It's okay to get 300cc implants, but "don't go too big!" Some people judge all women who get a breast augmentation...how would they feel if someone slammed them simply because they had this surgery. Sheesh!

Also I agree on the stripper/porn star thing...I've met some wonderful women on here who were stippers and/or pornstars...and they were pretty kick-@ss girls- as well as normal people! How offensive. So now we can put on the list of "not okay" things to do- work in the adult industry, or get over a certain cc implant. Why not just keep going and make harsh, unnecessary judgmental comments about everyone!?!?!

OK done ranting- but I LOVE this forum cause we're not like that!!!!!

Couldn't have said this ANY better myself!!

sweet_wench · 10-23-2009, 02:28 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Genie

Oh gosh. This topic probably pissed me off more than anything!! I've shared with a few friends that I'm going to 950cc & the reactions I've gotten have made me so furious! I've gotten reactions like "You're gonna look more like a porn star than you already do!" or "OMG you're gonna regret that when your older." or "You're just crazy-why would you even want to go that big?" Some of the reactions are from men but most come from female friends I have. I secretly wonder if they're jealous of how FABOLOUS my new boobies will be. I hate the stereotype that women with large breasts should be porn stars or strippers. It gives the impression that "Ewww porn stars & strippers are gross." They're women just like all of us who have chosen a profession not chosen by most. I think it would take TONS of confidence to be a porn star or a stripper & I strive to be that confident in my everyday life! Wooo...sorry for the vent ladies! This gets me riled up!!!

the woman who say this must have way to much porn in there house, and DH's who are more into the porn then there naggin negative wifes,,

but a repeated comment in this thread makes me wonder,
so I am going to ask,, do larger implants and breast give back problems??

I am really starting to think not! maybe then i am getting boob greed,,,, thinking biggger next time and honestly if the woman on here did not look so great with them I would not have it crossing my mind time to time!

jj2009 · 10-23-2009, 02:34 AM

yep iv had those kinda comments from almost everyone when i told em i was getting breast augmentation and what size i was going.
it really shit me to tears!! i would think..."dont YOU go and get a breast augmentation, and if you do, dont YOU choose a big size.btw YOU are not paying for these suckers, so YOU have absolutely no part in the decision making."
wow i feel better now. thanks gals.

and also, i have been to strip clubs before and most of the dancers iv seen actually have really small natural boobs. so i dont know where this stereotype came from. i understand porn star sterotype cos the majority of them do have large breasts (natural or not),but not so much strippers. (from what iv seen)
does anyone agree??

tabby15208 · 10-23-2009, 02:41 AM

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Originally Posted by jj2009

and also, i have been to strip clubs before and most of the dancers iv seen actually have really small natural boobs. so i dont know where this stereotype came from. i understand porn star sterotype cos the majority of them do have large breasts (natural or not),but not so much strippers. (from what iv seen)
does anyone agree??

YES I agree! The "feature" dancers usually do, but nowadays even that's not always true- the "natural" look seems to be in style. I was a dancer for several years and prob 80%-90% of the girls did NOT have BAs.

Of course all the men would say to us, "You look great- don't ever get implants" but then they would proceed to spend all their money on the girls who had them!

jj2009 · 10-23-2009, 04:03 AM

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Originally Posted by tabby15208

Of course all the men would say to us, "You look great- don't ever get implants" but then they would proceed to spend all their money on the girls who had them!

omg so true!!!

Gyrl · 10-26-2009, 09:32 AM

Well, I plan on going 925cc..let them hate!

crazy4boobs637 · 10-26-2009, 10:24 AM

wow, I would be pretty P.O'ed.
I want to go pretty large.
Even Porn Star Large.
But that is just "me".
So because I have huge breasts my character is going to be judged???

SOOOO not Cool!!!!!

jackie_p · 11-16-2009, 10:30 PM

This is all exactly why I was fooling myself for the past few years, thinking I just wanted a small boost to what I have naturally. Here I am learning to have the courage to speak about what I want for me.

HispanicMom · 11-16-2009, 10:36 PM

The way I see it is that you shouldn't judge what others are wanting to get! I mean that's why we r all here, because not everyone understands the decision to get an augmentation. I'm not going to sit here and tell you what you should or shouldn't get! Plus everyone is different and requires a diff amount of cc's to achieve the look they want! I'm sorry that your negative feedback. I won't lie when I see the numbers I sometimes think, wow that's a lot.....but really it all depends on the individual. I think you look great

redbonemami · 11-17-2009, 05:23 PM

Since getting my 950s girls like me even less than they did before lol. I get the stares/looks...nasty comments...even had people try to fight me @ the club lol. In all honesty, I don't mind and I knew I'd be receiving a lot of negative attention. I did this for ME. Anyone who doesn't like it can shove it lol. Like I always say "STAND UP OR LAY DOWN"

We're all a bunch of sexy ladies with "circus freak/porn star/stripper" boobs. OWN IT <3

and just a little side note...i know MANY women in the adult industry and they happen to be some of the most spiritually enlightened, mature, responsible, NORMAL etc etc women I have ever met.

NZGirl · 11-17-2009, 05:27 PM

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Originally Posted by redbonemami

We're all a bunch of sexy ladies with "circus freak/porn star/stripper" boobs. OWN IT

Haha I love it!

vainღ♥♡jane · 11-18-2009, 06:40 PM

i'm on that forum too! i like this one much better.

vainღ♥♡jane · 11-18-2009, 06:42 PM

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Originally Posted by redbonemami

and just a little side note...i know MANY women in the adult industry and they happen to be some of the most spiritually enlightened, mature, responsible, NORMAL etc etc women I have ever met.

this is so true!

Sophia · 11-19-2009, 02:26 AM

Haha! I want to be "a circus freak with porno-big breast" and I'm proud of it!
Better than to be a close-minded fool.

10-23-2009, 12:13 AM	#25
tabby15208 Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: SMALLTOWN PENNSYLVANIA Posts: 837 Thanks: 770 Thanked 450 Times in 329 Posts	Agreed- to all of it! What makes it okay to judge or be rude to ANYONE who gets a breast augmentation? Especially coming from a woman who has gotten a breast augmentation! Where do you draw the line- and why should there be a line? It's okay to get 300cc implants, but "don't go too big!" Some people judge all women who get a breast augmentation...how would they feel if someone slammed them simply because they had this surgery. Sheesh! Also I agree on the stripper/porn star thing...I've met some wonderful women on here who were stippers and/or pornstars...and they were pretty kick-@ss girls- as well as normal people! How offensive. So now we can put on the list of "not okay" things to do- work in the adult industry, or get over a certain cc implant. Why not just keep going and make harsh, unnecessary judgmental comments about everyone!?!?! OK done ranting- but I LOVE this forum cause we're not like that!!!!! __________________ *tabby* 5'4.5" 115 34A Pre-op What I want: 225-275cc, Moderate Profile, Crease Incision. Undecided, but leaning towards silicone Goal- 34C

10-23-2009, 02:34 AM	#29
jj2009 Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: brisbane queensland Posts: 454 Thanks: 45 Thanked 161 Times in 133 Posts	yep iv had those kinda comments from almost everyone when i told em i was getting breast augmentation and what size i was going. it really shit me to tears!! i would think..."dont YOU go and get a breast augmentation, and if you do, dont YOU choose a big size.btw YOU are not paying for these suckers, so YOU have absolutely no part in the decision making." wow i feel better now. thanks gals. and also, i have been to strip clubs before and most of the dancers iv seen actually have really small natural boobs. so i dont know where this stereotype came from. i understand porn star sterotype cos the majority of them do have large breasts (natural or not),but not so much strippers. (from what iv seen) does anyone agree?? __________________ height: 5'6" weight: 127 preBA 34C/12C postBA 34E/12E...so far Ultra HP textured silicone PIP 405cc(right),435(left)

10-26-2009, 10:24 AM	#33
crazy4boobs637 Scheduled my Date! April 29th Here I come!!! Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: silverdale, washington Posts: 279 Thanks: 34 Thanked 116 Times in 103 Posts	wow, I would be pretty P.O'ed. I want to go pretty large. Even Porn Star Large. But that is just "me". So because I have huge breasts my character is going to be judged??? SOOOO not Cool!!!!! __________________ 18 yrs old. 5'3. 130lbs. Pre-breast augmentation:Small Flat Deflated B. Breast-fed for one Year. Mommy of 1 princess. Wife to a Marine Up Coming Breast Augmentation April 29th 2010 Dr.William Aiello From Dr.90210 Mod+ or HP. Looking at 800cc's Right Now.

11-16-2009, 10:30 PM	#34
jackie_p Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: new york, new york Posts: 78 Thanks: 29 Thanked 27 Times in 21 Posts	This is all exactly why I was fooling myself for the past few years, thinking I just wanted a small boost to what I have naturally. Here I am learning to have the courage to speak about what I want for me. __________________ 32 years old 5'8", 128 lbs currently: 34-B want to be: the more I read here, the bigger I want (.)(.) --> ( . V . ) avatar is me SOMEDAY

11-16-2009, 10:36 PM	#35
HispanicMom Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Las Vegas, Nevada Posts: 223 Thanks: 41 Thanked 43 Times in 42 Posts	The way I see it is that you shouldn't judge what others are wanting to get! I mean that's why we r all here, because not everyone understands the decision to get an augmentation. I'm not going to sit here and tell you what you should or shouldn't get! Plus everyone is different and requires a diff amount of cc's to achieve the look they want! I'm sorry that your negative feedback. I won't lie when I see the numbers I sometimes think, wow that's a lot.....but really it all depends on the individual. I think you look great __________________ Age: 27 Height: 5" 4" Weight: 100lbs Pre breast augmentation: 32-34A Post breast augmentation: Hoping for a 32-34D Implants: Saline, 360 cc's, unders, crease incision Surgery: October 23, 2009 @ 6:15am! Both sides filled to 390 ccs's!!!!

10-22-2009, 08:33 PM	#22
me2202 Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: melbourne victoria Posts: 104 Thanks: 11 Thanked 43 Times in 35 Posts	Some people even with breast augmentation's are still judgemental about the whole breast augmentation thing and i think they project their feelings of self doubt and shame onto others sometimes thinking it is justified. When really its not. No matter what size implants you have you have them generally to make yourself feel better noone else, So people who make such comments should go jump. Mine arent huge and I have to say I think people who can go that bit bigger, tend to look great and have self confidence. SO all in all tell em to jump and get a f**& life.

10-26-2009, 09:32 AM	#32
Gyrl ~~925's Baybay~~ Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 221 Thanks: 203 Thanked 90 Times in 59 Posts	Well, I plan on going 925cc..let them hate!

11-17-2009, 05:23 PM	#36
redbonemami Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Vancouver, Canada Posts: 106 Thanks: 32 Thanked 23 Times in 19 Posts	Since getting my 950s girls like me even less than they did before lol. I get the stares/looks...nasty comments...even had people try to fight me @ the club lol. In all honesty, I don't mind and I knew I'd be receiving a lot of negative attention. I did this for ME. Anyone who doesn't like it can shove it lol. Like I always say "STAND UP OR LAY DOWN" We're all a bunch of sexy ladies with "circus freak/porn star/stripper" boobs. OWN IT <3 and just a little side note...i know MANY women in the adult industry and they happen to be some of the most spiritually enlightened, mature, responsible, NORMAL etc etc women I have ever met. __________________ -

11-18-2009, 06:40 PM	#38
vainღ♥♡jane throw some Ds on it! Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Biloxi Mississippi Posts: 165 Thanks: 56 Thanked 42 Times in 42 Posts	i'm on that forum too! i like this one much better. __________________ 20 years old 5'8, 154 and losing pre breast augmentation: 38 b, 36 c (wrong fit) post breast augmentation: i want a full D

11-19-2009, 02:26 AM	#40
Sophia Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 9 Thanks: 2 Thanked 2 Times in 1 Post	Haha! I want to be "a circus freak with porno-big breast" and I'm proud of it! Better than to be a close-minded fool.

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