Negative Feedback

[Murf]

I know we are (hopefully) all doing this for ourselves and not for others, but I'm curious how many of you encounter negative feedback from people whether they know or just think they know that you have implants. I've read a couple clever ladies' tips on how to deal with that as well, so if you've got any, feel free to share!

[ashlyc]

I really never told anyone except a couple. All the feedback was good, but I voted Here and There because I did have one random person say something rude under her breath. Im not sure if that counts....

[chickie32]

i told a few of my gf's, and they were all like "omg why do you want to look like dolly parton??"

and ALL of my male friends were like "well make sure you go to a reputable doctor".

and that was it. kinda crazy tho.

[YummeeCookee]

I voted here and there. I dont advertise the fact that I had a BA, but I do advertise the fact that I have big breasts So for ppl who knew me before my BA, its obvious to them that I had one even if Ive never come out and said it.

The very few negative things Ive heard come out more as backhanded "compliments" from girls.

[zephyr love]

i neve told anybody except my mom and sister as well as the boyfriend and roommae since i live with them.

i'm asuming people will give me looks like is that fake or real? *shrug*

i do know this one girl who got boobs and i sked bout her experience and thoughts. she was like no dont get it, you dont neeed to. however, a close friend said ot me, she doesnt you to get your boobs done she has them which seemed weird b/c she was like "i love my boobs" but didnt want me to get them. i haven't told her i got them anyway. lol

i'm very secretive about this BA so i only told a few peole who i love or dear to me. =)

[Angie89]

Pretty much anyone I told would gasp and say "But WHY?" Which I thought was a compliment, they told me that I had a great body already without the boobs. How sweet is that?
Then I would hear about how it's not worth it, all the money, pain, etc.
So I voted a couple encounters here and there b/c I really haven't told many people at all and I want to keep it that way.

[Cleo82]

Before BA some peoples didn't believe me and some said "don't do it" or "plastic boobs are ugly". After BA all those peoples think my boobs are very beautiful. I've heard some totally strangers discussing about my boobs behind my back "i bet they are implants"
Those poor young mens don't have guts to ask it straight from me, haha!

[SoReady]

Most people do not know, but if they do they don't say anything. I am a full C so it's not like they are way noticeable, but some of my friends act like they are not happy about it... prob just jealous.. who knows

[ekgmom]

All of the people I have told know how flat I was beforehand and how badly it affected my self esteem. They have all been supportive and keep telling me how good they look. I also didn't go HUGE. I went normal. If I had gone really large, then I might have gotten a few comments since I live in a pretty conservative area.
Now, that being said, next summer when I really get to show them off, I might run into a few jealous friends when I'm in my bikini!

[janietkake]

I have felt it more in the looks and body language of other women, but they really don't say much. My mom is def not a fan !

[Phenomom]

Got some negative feedback pre ba which stopped me from telling more people. It's been over a yr now and I'm more comfortable discussing my procedures. The fact that I healed w/o complication and the girls fit my bodt so well prevents much negative feedback. That could also be due to the fact that it's clear that I don't care what anyone thinks. I love the girls! LOL!