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katiew · 12-11-2006, 12:29 PM

Hi everyone,

Just wondering what I'm letting myself in for, my bf has already commented that I'm never going out on my own again after I've had them done (he better be joking!). Was just wondering if your increase in confidence made your partners feel more insecure about themselves.

Katie x

Ivy · 12-11-2006, 02:05 PM

Not at all. My husband knows I love him and I'm not going anywhere. He has never been insecure or insinuated that he thought I would leave him after my BA.

lorisweets2 · 12-11-2006, 03:11 PM

Mine was all for my decision to have this done he said I want you to do this for your self not for me... athough he has been alittle more insecure saying things like I bet you will get more attention........he knows I love him I think that its a change and will take some time to get use to it......

bealotus82 · 12-11-2006, 03:34 PM

Not at all!
He's very positive and he trusts me!

Nanny66 · 12-11-2006, 03:59 PM

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Originally Posted by katiew

Hi everyone,

Just wondering what I'm letting myself in for, my bf has already commented that I'm never going out on my own again after I've had them done (he better be joking!). Was just wondering if your increase in confidence made your partners feel more insecure about themselves.

Katie x

I think my OH;s insecurities were the reason he held off for so long in helping me achieve my BA.....pre BA i had a special bra that really made me look like i had some boob, and he would sometimes comment that ppl were looking, we discussed this at length before my op, i assured him a pair of boobs would not change my psersonality, but would benefit him in the bedroom, cos i would be more proud and comfortable with my body...ive always worn revealing tops when on an evening out, and so was honest that this wasnt going to change....i think you have to be honest with yourself as well as with your man, that way your both going into this with your eyes wide open....and talking about everything is so important....my OH can be quite paranoid about things, but i can honestly say we've never had a cross word about my boobs so far....

TIENNE · 12-11-2006, 05:25 PM

Very Much So... My Husband became quite insecure. We are getting over it now (1 Year later) but wow - He was not himself in the beginning though.

milla · 12-11-2006, 06:33 PM

no problems with my partner either. he was ok with my decision to get boobs pre BA and is fine with my

them every now and then. probably enjoys watching me flaunt my upper half rather than my legs every now and then

Vanessa · 12-17-2006, 10:07 PM

No way!!...My dh is not insecure at all!! If anything he wishes i would show them off more!!

Splendid · 12-26-2006, 12:29 AM

Not even close! He's ready to take the girls on the town, heh.

gingersnap · 01-03-2007, 11:28 AM

I voted No, not at all. I really dont think he's insecure about them. He does like to tease that everyone is staring at my "humongo boobs"

. But it doesnt seem to be in a jealous way at all.
Men...

pla · 01-04-2007, 04:18 PM

my DH is a very secure man, and he was all for me making my own decision about this, and not once did he say he was against it.
he has never commented anything of the sort, as he fully trusts me and knows i love him no matter what.
however, he did comment once when i was waiting for him at a bar/restaurant and all these guys were talking to me before he arrived that all the attention i was getting was because of "the twins"
i told him, "honey, if you're a half pretty girl, sitting ALONE in a bar, believe me, twins or no twins, you won't be alone too long...."
hehe

jodyt · 01-04-2007, 09:43 PM

my hubby at the time was a little more insecure but then again he was allready insecure possibly something to do with being a wart on the face of humanity

elizabethmc · 01-05-2007, 04:30 AM

Jeez, no! All he could do was think about boobies, boobies, boobies, and all for him! LOL!!!

tallulah76 · 01-05-2007, 07:19 AM

my hubby was already insecure as he is somewhat overweight - we were supposed to lose extra weight by dieting and excersing together, supporting each other - unfortunately he didn't suceed but I did.

So... with my weight loss and gym obsession, new boobs and resulting confidence increase, hubby has become a little insecure now even though he knows I love him very much ... hence his decision to join the gym!! ...

so I voted a little more insecure

tallulah76 · 01-05-2007, 07:19 AM

my hubby was already insecure as he is somewhat overweight - we were supposed to lose extra weight by dieting and excersing together, supporting each other - unfortunately he didn't suceed but I did.

So... with my weight loss and gym obsession, new boobs and resulting confidence increase, hubby has become a little insecure now even though he knows I love him very much ... hence his decision to join the gym!! ...

so I voted a little more insecure

hoolagirl · 01-05-2007, 12:47 PM

My partner was getting insecure before I got them done, silly comments like are you going to run off with some toned adonis etc etc, in a joking way of course

He is absolutely fine now though, think he's realised it hasn't changed me or the way I dress, they are for his (and mine) eyes only.
He was a bit strange in the first couple of weeks thinking everyone was staring at them, but it was just his initial insecurity.

View Poll Results: Was your partner more insecure after your BA?
Very insecure	7	11.48%
A little bit more inscure	16	26.23%
No, not at all	38	62.30%
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12-11-2006, 12:29 PM	#1
katiew Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Cumbria, UK Posts: 75 Thanks: 67 Thanked 26 Times in 17 Posts	Was your partner more insecure after your BA? Hi everyone, Just wondering what I'm letting myself in for, my bf has already commented that I'm never going out on my own again after I've had them done (he better be joking!). Was just wondering if your increase in confidence made your partners feel more insecure about themselves. Katie x

12-11-2006, 02:05 PM	#2
Ivy President of the Universe Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Earth Posts: 2,718 My Mood: Thanks: 1,317 Thanked 1,087 Times in 751 Posts	Not at all. My husband knows I love him and I'm not going anywhere. He has never been insecure or insinuated that he thought I would leave him after my BA. __________________

12-17-2006, 10:07 PM	#8
Vanessa I've been a good girl Santa ;) Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: The South Posts: 2,279 My Mood: Thanks: 1,044 Thanked 741 Times in 609 Posts	No way!!...My dh is not insecure at all!! If anything he wishes i would show them off more!! __________________ www.justbreastimplants.com/Beckenstein/

01-03-2007, 11:28 AM	#10
gingersnap wish I was more creative Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada. Posts: 138 My Mood: Thanks: 26 Thanked 12 Times in 12 Posts	I voted No, not at all. I really dont think he's insecure about them. He does like to tease that everyone is staring at my "humongo boobs" . But it doesnt seem to be in a jealous way at all. Men... __________________

12-11-2006, 03:11 PM	#3
lorisweets2 Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 13 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	Mine was all for my decision to have this done he said I want you to do this for your self not for me... athough he has been alittle more insecure saying things like I bet you will get more attention........he knows I love him I think that its a change and will take some time to get use to it......

12-11-2006, 03:34 PM	#4
bealotus82 Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Florida Posts: 1,295 Thanks: 278 Thanked 320 Times in 302 Posts	Not at all! He's very positive and he trusts me!

12-11-2006, 05:25 PM	#6
TIENNE Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 58 Thanks: 9 Thanked 7 Times in 7 Posts	Very Much So... My Husband became quite insecure. We are getting over it now (1 Year later) but wow - He was not himself in the beginning though.

12-11-2006, 06:33 PM	#7
milla Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: europe Posts: 1,470 Thanks: 196 Thanked 468 Times in 422 Posts	no problems with my partner either. he was ok with my decision to get boobs pre BA and is fine with my them every now and then. probably enjoys watching me flaunt my upper half rather than my legs every now and then

12-26-2006, 12:29 AM	#9
Splendid Country Gal Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Texas Posts: 469 Thanks: 26 Thanked 70 Times in 70 Posts	Not even close! He's ready to take the girls on the town, heh.

01-04-2007, 04:18 PM	#11
pla Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Los Angeles, California Posts: 574 My Mood: Thanks: 162 Thanked 100 Times in 93 Posts	my DH is a very secure man, and he was all for me making my own decision about this, and not once did he say he was against it. he has never commented anything of the sort, as he fully trusts me and knows i love him no matter what. however, he did comment once when i was waiting for him at a bar/restaurant and all these guys were talking to me before he arrived that all the attention i was getting was because of "the twins" i told him, "honey, if you're a half pretty girl, sitting ALONE in a bar, believe me, twins or no twins, you won't be alone too long...." hehe __________________ www.justbreastimplants.com/Kim/

01-04-2007, 09:43 PM	#12
jodyt queen of the whole world Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: salisbury,england Posts: 1,483 Thanks: 430 Thanked 314 Times in 228 Posts	my hubby at the time was a little more insecure but then again he was allready insecure possibly something to do with being a wart on the face of humanity __________________

01-05-2007, 04:30 AM	#13
elizabethmc Happy Holidays! Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Oak Forest, Illinois Posts: 574 Thanks: 267 Thanked 211 Times in 166 Posts	Jeez, no! Jeez, no! All he could do was think about boobies, boobies, boobies, and all for him! LOL!!!

01-05-2007, 07:19 AM	#14
tallulah76 Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Lancashire, United Kingdom Posts: 280 Thanks: 80 Thanked 44 Times in 42 Posts	my hubby was already insecure as he is somewhat overweight - we were supposed to lose extra weight by dieting and excersing together, supporting each other - unfortunately he didn't suceed but I did. So... with my weight loss and gym obsession, new boobs and resulting confidence increase, hubby has become a little insecure now even though he knows I love him very much ... hence his decision to join the gym!! ... so I voted a little more insecure

01-05-2007, 12:47 PM	#16
hoolagirl Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Bonnie Scotland Posts: 233 Thanks: 77 Thanked 32 Times in 29 Posts	My partner was getting insecure before I got them done, silly comments like are you going to run off with some toned adonis etc etc, in a joking way of course He is absolutely fine now though, think he's realised it hasn't changed me or the way I dress, they are for his (and mine) eyes only. He was a bit strange in the first couple of weeks thinking everyone was staring at them, but it was just his initial insecurity.