Should i fix my bottoming out or not? Yes or No

[Annie]

Vanessa, you are welcome, any time I can help , i am happy too! So are you going to go ahead and get the surgery sweetie?

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Ivy

Vanessa,

If it were me, I would have the revision. I wouldn't want to have to wear a bra 24/7 worrying about the bottoming out getting worse (unfortunately, it won't fix itself no matter how much you wear a bra, the bra 24/7 is just keeping it from getting worse). I think you need to be totally comfortable with your breast augmentation and not have to worry about it if you decide to go bra-less every now and then. I can understand not really having the money too. Is there a time limit on how long you have to decide?

thank your for responding Ivy! I value your opinions so much, so it helps to have some "expert" advice. I'm not sure about the timeline my ps has for waiving his fees....I "think" it's for any complications up to one year he waives his fees...so i guess technically i have until April 11th.....
I would be very glad to get out of this bra!!

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by joyful

If it were me, I'd have the revision. Either way, I wish you the best of luck!! And I've already said this before, but your boobies look great!

You also have to think about bikinis. You look great in a string bikini (I can't say the same)... but if you don't get the revision you'd have to get underwired tops, right??? Boooo.

thanks Joy!! you're so sweet!....i haven't thought about the underwired bikini tops....i would probably have to wear those too...grrrrr.
Now that i have boobs, i want to be able to wear whatever top i want, so the bra thing is definitely a problem....
thanks for the vote!!...xoxox

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by jodyt

jmho but i would

thanks for the vote Jody!! I appreciate the response....xoxo

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Dellis

Hey Vanessa, I have to agree with the earlier posts. If it were me, I'd be inclined to do it while your ps is willing to waive his fees. And, having to wear a bra 24/7 has got to get old at some point. Like Anne said, you didn't have a breast augmentation to have to hide them in a bra.
Best wishes in your decision!

thank you Denese!!....It is defintiely old already having to wear these dang things!.....And it sucks having to keep up with the washing just so i'll have a bra to wear!!..LOL
i appreciate the vote

[Impalamama]

Hey Nessa... good luck on your desicion.... I voted for "fixing them"... ttyl girl

[Ivy]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

thank your for responding Ivy! I value your opinions so much, so it helps to have some "expert" advice. I'm not sure about the timeline my ps has for waiving his fees....I "think" it's for any complications up to one year he waives his fees...so i guess technically i have until April 11th.....
I would be very glad to get out of this bra!!

Vanessa,

As far as I know, most surgeons will give you a time line on revisions (if its even in their policy to do revisions free or at a discounted rate). Ya know, they are only human too, I guess you should talk this over with him and see exactly what his policy is and if maybe he would extend it or let you make payments. I think this is the approach I would take. Let us know what you decide.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Sparkle719

Hey Nessa...

Sorry, I just saw this now! That chat room has me hooked!! LOL But I'd say yes too, for the same reasons all the other girls said yes. Basically, like Ivy said, wearing the bra 24/7 will only stop it from getting worse. I think if you had the permanent sutures put in, you should still wear a bra most of the time. But I'd guess that you don't have to always sleep in it, and if you want to wear a cute halter top or something now and again, without a bra, go for it! I just think it may not be the best idea to not wear a bra at all after...ya know?!?! Either way, I'm glad DH is 100% behind you!! You are such a hottie, and your boobies look great no matter what!!

Katie..you're such a sweetie! Thank you girl for your thoughts!
As you've noticed, i'm hooked on the chat too!..lol
you're right about the bra thing...i probably should still wear one most times, even if i have the revision, but i guess i wouldn't feel so bad about not wearing one with certain outfits or with a bathing suit...I can't wait to see what my ps say at my appt.....I go on Jan 3rd....so soon!! I'm sure i'll find out more details then.....thanks again Katie!...xoxoxo

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Blondegirl

Vanessa,
I voted yes because I had the same problem. I had my revision and am so glad I did. They look awesome now. I think if your bottoming out then its probably only going to get worse in the long run even though your wearing a bra. I wore mine 24/7 too and even held the dang thing up when I took a bath!!! It still was lower. Are you a member of my group? I have my revision pics on there.
Anyway good luck on your decision and keep me posted

thanks for the vote Tonya....i'm seeing a trend here!...heehee
i have seen your pics and you look awesome!...it give he hope that i'll look much better if i have the revision....and heck i like them now...so wow!! I can't imagine what i'll look like after!!....i will definitely keep everyone posted!!..xoxo

[Reese]

I think you should get the girls to a place where you happiest with them.

[Lollypie]

Darling I really think you should get this fixed. What fun are boobs if they're in yr bra all the time? And that's not even to make them better, but to stop them getting worse. I'm sorry to be blunt but I really would go with the revision, esp if your PS is waiving fees, let us know what you decide xxx

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Dreamweaver

Ok.. Im half and half on this..
I think that if the money would be a struggle right now and you are happy with them that you should wait to get them fixed.. From the looks of them, I think they look good and I think that you and dh are pretty happy with them too...
But at the same time, I dont want them to get worse or cause some other type of problem down the road... So, I voted "no" but I think that that's just for the short term.. I think that once you get to a point where yall have some 'extra money' (if there's so such thing) that you could fix them then..? Make sense? Maybe like next fall.. or the end of summer or something....
That's just me though
*hugs!!*
I miss you girly!! lol We'll chat more after the holidays Im sure!!

Hey Sweetie!!...We keep missing each other with the chat...I know the holidays are crazy so we'll catch up after....Whenver you see me online, just go into chat and see if i'm there!

I know what you mean about waiting a while...that's what i was thinking of doing, but now others have brought up there could be a timeline on how long my ps's offer is to waive his fees, so i'm definitely going to find out about that to help with my decision.....I see him in two weeks, so i'm hoping i'll feel more confident one way or the other after talking with him. Thank you girl for the input!! xoxo
"chat" soon!!

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Annie

Vanessa, you are welcome, any time I can help , i am happy too! So are you going to go ahead and get the surgery sweetie?

i'm not sure yet Annie...I guess i'm waiting to see what my ps says at my next appt. in two weeks....But i feel good knowing how so many of you feel about it.
Definitely helps me in making a decision. I'll keep you posted..xoxo

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Impalamama

Hey Nessa... good luck on your desicion.... I voted for "fixing them"... ttyl girl

Hey Maggie!..thanks for the vote girl...i guess i know deep down i should have the revision, its' just hard right now to justify the money when we have none!
i honestly didn't think i would have to have them redone so soon. There's alot of other things i would love to use the money for, so i'm trying not to feel guilty about it...xoxo

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Ivy

Vanessa,

As far as I know, most surgeons will give you a time line on revisions (if its even in their policy to do revisions free or at a discounted rate). Ya know, they are only human too, I guess you should talk this over with him and see exactly what his policy is and if maybe he would extend it or let you make payments. I think this is the approach I would take. Let us know what you decide.

yea, i will definitely keep you guys posted....i'm hoping to find out everything in more detail at my visit....My last visit was kind of brief and we didn't get into the specifics of the redo, just that i was bottoming out and i had to wait to fix it.
i've come across Care Credit...so i'm thinking of using them to pay for the surgery.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Reese

I think you should get the girls to a place where you happiest with them.

thank you for the vote!..xoxo

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Lollypie

Darling I really think you should get this fixed. What fun are boobs if they're in yr bra all the time? And that's not even to make them better, but to stop them getting worse. I'm sorry to be blunt but I really would go with the revision, esp if your PS is waiving fees, let us know what you decide xxx

i don't mind you being blunt at all!!...I wanted honest opinions so i appreciate your thoughts! The bra shackles are definitely not fun, so i'm with ya on that!!
xoxo

[Vanessa]

I just wanted to say thank you to everyone for posting and sharing your opinions with me....I see my ps on Wed. the 3rd. and will hopefully know more information to help me with my decision. My husband is behind me either way, and at the moment i am very interested in getting the sutures put in to correct this. I can't believe it's been 3 months already since i found out about the bottoming out. He wanted to wait 3-6 months until i could have the revision, so i hope he'll give the okay soon. I'll keep everyone posted about Wed. xoxo
*big hugs to everyone!!*

[val(gomoms)]

I would do it if he was waiving his fees! I think it can get worst and you might regret it if you don't do something soon.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by val(gomoms)

I would do it if he was waiving his fees! I think it can get worst and you might regret it if you don't do something soon.

thanks Val!...It seems your in the majority with the other girls....I feel alot more confident wanting to have them redone, knowing you would all do the same thing. And hearing about other girls having easy recoveries after their redos is nice too!!