Boobies - Before or After Kids

taydev · 10-24-2009, 01:02 PM

I only have one child and i got my breasts after him. I still want more so oh wel lol. who knows, my boobs may still look good and possibly BIGGER after i go for my second baby, but i agree with doing what makes you feel good now. I didnt wanna wait till i have my second child, Im only 27 years young and my boobies were much older after childbirth!

fancyk17 · 10-24-2009, 01:22 PM

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Originally Posted by neednewones

I waited until after. LOL don't assume because we wait until after we do not go out and have fun or show them off. I would bet that there is a lot of moms on here that are still younger too. (all my friends including myself still go out, get dressed up etc and we are all 30 or older)

I would have had to do redo them if I didn't wait and that would be another 7000-10000 that I wasn't about to put into breasts if I didn't have to. I was told to wait by plastic surgeon and glad I listened. Some get it done before and have no changes to their breasts after and some do

I agree with you on that! I felt the same way.....

stolz · 10-24-2009, 06:00 PM

I got mine before kids as I don't know if we will have kids (or if I can due to damages of annorexia)
I have wanted a BA for 8 years, and now I have finally had it done I couldnt be happier!

'If' I have kids, I'll see how the boobies hold up, and then when I am done with that, and further down the track, I might get another job and a lift.

SoKrayzie · 10-24-2009, 07:51 PM

hey girls, I got my boobies after my two boys, they breastfed and left my boobies a flat AA cup ;(, before I had my boys I was a 32 B cup

miss_vixen · 10-24-2009, 07:56 PM

it wasnt until after i had kids that i decided i needed them, i might still have another but i dont know, i think if i knew i was having kids in the near future then i would wait to get it done but if it was going to be a while i wouldnt have the patience, i was planning to get new boobs next summer and got them done last week because i couldnt wait

HockeyBabe17 · 10-24-2009, 11:16 PM

I got mine done at 17, aka definately was notttt planning on having kids for a while! lol I'm also in modeling (swimwear, promos etc) so it was kind of a career move too

Glad I did it, I definately wouldn't have waited for anything. If I had been in my 20s or 30s and was planning on kids immediately, then I would've waited til after (makes sense) but being so young at the time, and honestly who knows if I'll ever even have kids, I figured might as well!

beckybee · 10-25-2009, 05:19 PM

I considered surgery only briefly in my early early 20's and then realized it wasn't something I was comfortable with. I was a flat 32A and not saggy at that point. After breastfeeding, my boobs were a wreck.

9 years later, I decided to have surgery. Sometimes, I wish I hadn't, but I don't have the average surgery story.

may · 10-25-2009, 06:51 PM

I know I absolutely want children, but like you, it probably won't happen for another 5 years or so. And my breasts were a source of enough unhappiness that I didn't want to wait that long.

I have accepted the fact that I may have to undergo additional surgery after having kids. In fact, I think I would like to switch to silicone after, because I've heard that for people with very little natural tissue (like myself!), they feel waaay better. And I know they've done tons of research and have concluded that there is no way breastfeeding with silicone implants is harmful to your baby (at least no more so than saline implants, which all have a silicone shell anyhow), but I was just too nervous to do it. (Silly, I know. Sometimes I sort of regret it.)

Sexy Boricua · 10-25-2009, 10:26 PM

I never though was going to have boobies ever in my life....until now fiancee and I got engaged, he wanted me to look gorgeous on my wedding day. But I wanted for my 40th bday which is next year, kill to bird at once.

Well got my boobies 6 month ago and before my bday!!!! and LOVE IT!!!!

Runninginheels · 10-26-2009, 12:29 AM

I don't have my BA yet, but it will be before any kiddos. I'm still in college/have grad school to get through, and I don't see myself producing any spawn in the next couple of years...and I'm tired of my breasts already looking like I nursed a good three or four kids, haha.

me2202 · 10-26-2009, 02:38 AM

I waited til after, but that was because from 20 was in a serious relationship and new i wanted kids and we would have them eariler rather than later, if i hadnt of been in a relationship that i knew was the one so to speak i would have gone for it eariler.

fashion101 · 10-27-2009, 11:03 AM

I had my done after I had kids. I had my first kid at 18 so I didn't have $5,000for boobies...

crazy4boobs637 · 10-27-2009, 11:15 AM

LOL.
I wish I could vote for Both.
My intention was to get them right after High School.
But I ended Up graduating at 16...
And getting married and having a baby right away.
I am 18 now.
And I definitely want to get my boobs NOW.
I knew I would always get a boob job but after getting married
I didnt think we could afford it right away.
But after breastfeeding for a year, with my already non-existent breasts,
it really took a toll.
They looked great nice and full and BIG.
but then I STOPPED.
and now I feel so UGLY.
I just hate looking at them.
they look like two water balloons that got hit by a truck!
=[

and Im only 18!!!!!!
so SAD!
LOL.
So now I know Im going to get one, Im praying early next year.
I
DEFINITELY
want MORE kids, later in the future,
but I never got a chance to really enjoy looking great YOUNG.. (lol.. like im really old or something.. haha)...
I just want to look great now..
Not when Im 30.

NO OFFENSE TO ANYONE WHO GOT THEM WHEN THEY WERE OLDER.
IT WAS JUST MY PERSONAL PREFERENCE.

and probably because i have a low self esteem.....
I really dont see a problem getting them either way.
If you want them before kids..
Right in the middle..
or after...

its your body!!!
enjoy it!

august555 · 10-27-2009, 12:47 PM

I got mine before kids and we aren't planning on waiting more than 2 years before starting our family. I just didn't want to wait anymore!! I can live with the fact that I may have to have a redo after kids but maybe not????
Isn't there ANYONE out there who can say they had kids and breastfed and didn't require a redo (please say there is someone!)

Dare · 10-27-2009, 03:09 PM

I couldn't vote because I had my BA after 3 and before my last was born.

I would say go ahead and get them before kids, but maybe get them a cupsize smaller than the max you would be happy with. That way, if your skin expands a lot from pregnancy and nursing, and you're left with some slack to fill out, you won't have to necessarily get a full lift after your babies..you can just increase the size to help fill you back up. Does that make sense?

Double_Dee · 11-02-2009, 09:21 PM

I would say after because babies change your body so much, so you'd probably have to get em redone. Hm, but I guess women have to get them redone sometime or another anyway? I've wanted them for sooo long and I don't plan on having kids for a loong time so I would definitely get them before.

TimeFlies · 11-02-2009, 10:36 PM

So far I have two kids that I had before my BA, but who knows if I'll want more kids???

from A to D · 11-03-2009, 05:59 AM

It would be nice to have had them when I was younger, and single. I could have had a lot of fun with them! However I couldn't afford them and really didnt think that they were an option for normal everyday woman (I thought only celebs had them). I didn't like my tiny flat AA cup, but thought that implants were out of the realm of possibility! My tiny boobs were at least a nice shape. However breast feeding 4 kids in 4 yrs, it gave me a whole new appreciation for how bad things can get!! Haha, so I am glad that I waited until after because really, it wasn't that long (we decided to have our kids all close together) and now I am 26 with great boobs, and have the rest of my life to enjoy them..... however if I had the money and knowledge back then (before kids) I probably would have done it!- come what may!

TTmakeover · 11-06-2009, 12:36 AM

I might be crazy but I'm going to have my BA before kids. I'm 31 and I'm more then ready for grown up boobs. Maybe the implants will keep things from heading way to south. Guess only time will tell

Esy · 11-06-2009, 05:30 PM

I've always complain about my small breasts, but I felt good in my body, in spite of that. Until after breastfeeding two kids, I didn't even had small breasts... I lost everything!
Than it just occured to me... why wouldn't I make my body look great again? Why would I let my motherhood be the end of my "sexiness" ...
I was researching everything I could... I don't plan to have more kids... and the decision was made.

First I just wanted to have nice breasts, not too big... now I maybe a bit regretful for not taking the bigger implants. But, nevertheless, I feel great and sexy already, so I have what I wanted.

__

I agree with both point of views... it's smart to wait.... after the pregnancy, breastfeeding...

But...life is short and why not to make ourselves feeling better in our bodies as soon as we can.. I understand that too.

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10-24-2009, 06:00 PM	#23
stolz I now know what "sexy" feels like Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Mid North Coast, NSW Australia Posts: 243 Thanks: 36 Thanked 54 Times in 52 Posts	I got mine before kids as I don't know if we will have kids (or if I can due to damages of annorexia) I have wanted a BA for 8 years, and now I have finally had it done I couldnt be happier! 'If' I have kids, I'll see how the boobies hold up, and then when I am done with that, and further down the track, I might get another job and a lift. __________________ 5'7" 136lbs/62kgs Pre BA - hollow 32D/10D (C cup of tissue) Post BA - Haven't been measured yet. Hoping for a 32F 450cc HP unders both sides Ribcage 30" BWD 13cm BA date - 16th October 09

10-24-2009, 07:51 PM	#24
SoKrayzie Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Melbourne Posts: 206 Thanks: 99 Thanked 85 Times in 79 Posts	hey girls, I got my boobies after my two boys, they breastfed and left my boobies a flat AA cup ;(, before I had my boys I was a 32 B cup __________________ 28 yr old, mother of two breastfed boys 5"6 53kg 28" ribcage pre ba: 32 AA post ba: 32 D (aussie sizes) 300cc mods, full unders, crease ~So in love with my boobies~

10-24-2009, 07:56 PM	#25
miss_vixen Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Kamloops, British Columbia Posts: 38 Thanks: 0 Thanked 11 Times in 11 Posts	it wasnt until after i had kids that i decided i needed them, i might still have another but i dont know, i think if i knew i was having kids in the near future then i would wait to get it done but if it was going to be a while i wouldnt have the patience, i was planning to get new boobs next summer and got them done last week because i couldnt wait __________________ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ 5'3, 118 pounds Pre BA: 34 A/B Mentor 400cc HP Cohesive Gel Post BA: hoping for 34D+

10-25-2009, 05:19 PM	#27
beckybee Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Southern California Posts: 1,111 Thanks: 536 Thanked 555 Times in 446 Posts	I considered surgery only briefly in my early early 20's and then realized it wasn't something I was comfortable with. I was a flat 32A and not saggy at that point. After breastfeeding, my boobs were a wreck. 9 years later, I decided to have surgery. Sometimes, I wish I hadn't, but I don't have the average surgery story. __________________ 5'3" 105-110 lbs 27" ribcage 1st BA: March 2008 300 cc Natrelle HP Silicone Unders Pre BA 32A (saggy from breastfeeding...went up 3-4 cup sizes!) Post BA full 32C/30D 2nd BA: August 2008 (with my new & improved & ethical PS!) Revision due to CC of right breast and bottoming out & malposition of left breast Capsulectomy on right breast, internal sutures & lift on left breast, exchange of implants 350 cc Mentor Mod Plus Silicone Unders Post BA: So far, so good and hoping it stays that way! I have a bunch of complication & redo photos posted in 3 albums. Just friend request me and I will gladly accept! www.justbreastimplants.com/Shamoun/

10-24-2009, 01:02 PM	#21
taydev Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 84 Thanks: 12 Thanked 23 Times in 23 Posts	I only have one child and i got my breasts after him. I still want more so oh wel lol. who knows, my boobs may still look good and possibly BIGGER after i go for my second baby, but i agree with doing what makes you feel good now. I didnt wanna wait till i have my second child, Im only 27 years young and my boobies were much older after childbirth!

10-24-2009, 11:16 PM	#26
HockeyBabe17 Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Ontario, Canada/Los Angeles, California Posts: 578 Thanks: 230 Thanked 229 Times in 175 Posts	I got mine done at 17, aka definately was notttt planning on having kids for a while! lol I'm also in modeling (swimwear, promos etc) so it was kind of a career move too Glad I did it, I definately wouldn't have waited for anything. If I had been in my 20s or 30s and was planning on kids immediately, then I would've waited til after (makes sense) but being so young at the time, and honestly who knows if I'll ever even have kids, I figured might as well!

10-25-2009, 06:51 PM	#28
may Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 41 Thanks: 0 Thanked 19 Times in 17 Posts	I know I absolutely want children, but like you, it probably won't happen for another 5 years or so. And my breasts were a source of enough unhappiness that I didn't want to wait that long. I have accepted the fact that I may have to undergo additional surgery after having kids. In fact, I think I would like to switch to silicone after, because I've heard that for people with very little natural tissue (like myself!), they feel waaay better. And I know they've done tons of research and have concluded that there is no way breastfeeding with silicone implants is harmful to your baby (at least no more so than saline implants, which all have a silicone shell anyhow), but I was just too nervous to do it. (Silly, I know. Sometimes I sort of regret it.)

10-25-2009, 10:26 PM	#29
Sexy Boricua Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 64 Thanks: 44 Thanked 15 Times in 10 Posts	I never though was going to have boobies ever in my life....until now fiancee and I got engaged, he wanted me to look gorgeous on my wedding day. But I wanted for my 40th bday which is next year, kill to bird at once. Well got my boobies 6 month ago and before my bday!!!! and LOVE IT!!!! __________________ Sexy Boricua 5'0 - 34B (A)flat 34 DD - April 29, 2009

10-26-2009, 12:29 AM	#30
Runninginheels Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: West Virginia Posts: 63 Thanks: 25 Thanked 20 Times in 17 Posts	I don't have my BA yet, but it will be before any kiddos. I'm still in college/have grad school to get through, and I don't see myself producing any spawn in the next couple of years...and I'm tired of my breasts already looking like I nursed a good three or four kids, haha.

10-26-2009, 02:38 AM	#31
me2202 Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: melbourne victoria Posts: 78 Thanks: 9 Thanked 33 Times in 30 Posts	I waited til after, but that was because from 20 was in a serious relationship and new i wanted kids and we would have them eariler rather than later, if i hadnt of been in a relationship that i knew was the one so to speak i would have gone for it eariler.

10-27-2009, 11:03 AM	#32
fashion101 I love my ( . Y . ) Join Date: May 2009 Location: san antonio Posts: 94 Thanks: 23 Thanked 45 Times in 43 Posts	I had my done after I had kids. I had my first kid at 18 so I didn't have $5,000for boobies...

10-27-2009, 11:15 AM	#33
crazy4boobs637 Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: silverdale, washington Posts: 130 Thanks: 13 Thanked 72 Times in 62 Posts	LOL. I wish I could vote for Both. My intention was to get them right after High School. But I ended Up graduating at 16... And getting married and having a baby right away. I am 18 now. And I definitely want to get my boobs NOW. I knew I would always get a boob job but after getting married I didnt think we could afford it right away. But after breastfeeding for a year, with my already non-existent breasts, it really took a toll. They looked great nice and full and BIG. but then I STOPPED. and now I feel so UGLY. I just hate looking at them. they look like two water balloons that got hit by a truck! =[ and Im only 18!!!!!! so SAD! LOL. So now I know Im going to get one, Im praying early next year. I DEFINITELY want MORE kids, later in the future, but I never got a chance to really enjoy looking great YOUNG.. (lol.. like im really old or something.. haha)... I just want to look great now.. Not when Im 30. NO OFFENSE TO ANYONE WHO GOT THEM WHEN THEY WERE OLDER. IT WAS JUST MY PERSONAL PREFERENCE. and probably because i have a low self esteem..... I really dont see a problem getting them either way. If you want them before kids.. Right in the middle.. or after... its your body!!! enjoy it! __________________ 5'3 130lbs Pre-BA: Small B After BA: No BA scheduled Yet. Hoping Early Next Year!!!! CC's Wanted: As BIG as I can Go **When Sending a FR Please send a Little Note, and Have some pictures and Posts...**

10-27-2009, 12:47 PM	#34
august555 Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 85 Thanks: 17 Thanked 26 Times in 26 Posts	I got mine before kids and we aren't planning on waiting more than 2 years before starting our family. I just didn't want to wait anymore!! I can live with the fact that I may have to have a redo after kids but maybe not???? Isn't there ANYONE out there who can say they had kids and breastfed and didn't require a redo (please say there is someone!) __________________ 5'2" 105 lbs pre-BA 34 AA post-BA 32C 275 cc HP Silicone Unders, crease incision For security reasons, please have many posts and pics before sending FR!

10-27-2009, 03:09 PM	#35
Dare Knowledge is Power Join Date: May 2007 Posts: 1,372 Thanks: 478 Thanked 830 Times in 587 Posts	I couldn't vote because I had my BA after 3 and before my last was born. I would say go ahead and get them before kids, but maybe get them a cupsize smaller than the max you would be happy with. That way, if your skin expands a lot from pregnancy and nursing, and you're left with some slack to fill out, you won't have to necessarily get a full lift after your babies..you can just increase the size to help fill you back up. Does that make sense? __________________ Friend Requests gladly accepted ONLY from members that have picture albums of themselves, and are "elite" active posters.

11-02-2009, 09:21 PM	#36
Double_Dee Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Lewisville, Texas Posts: 16 Thanks: 24 Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post	I would say after because babies change your body so much, so you'd probably have to get em redone. Hm, but I guess women have to get them redone sometime or another anyway? I've wanted them for sooo long and I don't plan on having kids for a loong time so I would definitely get them before.

11-02-2009, 10:36 PM	#37
TimeFlies Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Brookfield, Wisconsin Posts: 105 Thanks: 148 Thanked 57 Times in 44 Posts	So far I have two kids that I had before my BA, but who knows if I'll want more kids??? __________________ 5ft 118lbs 32y/o Pre BA 34B Post BA 34D BA October 7, 2009 Mentor Silicone Gels 375cc's

11-03-2009, 05:59 AM	#38
from A to D Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: ADELAIDE SOUTH AUSTRALIA Posts: 78 Thanks: 3 Thanked 33 Times in 28 Posts	It would be nice to have had them when I was younger, and single. I could have had a lot of fun with them! However I couldn't afford them and really didnt think that they were an option for normal everyday woman (I thought only celebs had them). I didn't like my tiny flat AA cup, but thought that implants were out of the realm of possibility! My tiny boobs were at least a nice shape. However breast feeding 4 kids in 4 yrs, it gave me a whole new appreciation for how bad things can get!! Haha, so I am glad that I waited until after because really, it wasn't that long (we decided to have our kids all close together) and now I am 26 with great boobs, and have the rest of my life to enjoy them..... however if I had the money and knowledge back then (before kids) I probably would have done it!- come what may! __________________ [CENTER]CENTER] 52kg/ 117 pounds 163cm/ 5 4" PRE BA: 32AA POST BA: Hoping for a D 500cc Mod Profile, Mentor, silicone unders. Crease incision.

11-06-2009, 12:36 AM	#39
TTmakeover This time next week I'll have boobs! Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Louisville, Kentucky Posts: 88 Thanks: 53 Thanked 28 Times in 26 Posts	I might be crazy but I'm going to have my BA before kids. I'm 31 and I'm more then ready for grown up boobs. Maybe the implants will keep things from heading way to south. Guess only time will tell __________________ Height: 5'4 Weight: 105 lbs Silicone HP unders- 375 cc's 11/20/09 [url=http://www.TickerFactory.com/]

11-06-2009, 05:30 PM	#40
Esy Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Zagreb, Croatia Posts: 13 Thanks: 0 Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post	I've always complain about my small breasts, but I felt good in my body, in spite of that. Until after breastfeeding two kids, I didn't even had small breasts... I lost everything! Than it just occured to me... why wouldn't I make my body look great again? Why would I let my motherhood be the end of my "sexiness" ... I was researching everything I could... I don't plan to have more kids... and the decision was made. First I just wanted to have nice breasts, not too big... now I maybe a bit regretful for not taking the bigger implants. But, nevertheless, I feel great and sexy already, so I have what I wanted. __ I agree with both point of views... it's smart to wait.... after the pregnancy, breastfeeding... But...life is short and why not to make ourselves feeling better in our bodies as soon as we can.. I understand that too.

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