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Jen_St.Charles · 08-31-2008, 11:21 AM

Ladies...I am worried! I just havent been into sex recently...the 2 weeks since my BA...It is wierd cause I have never been this way...my husband and I are like rabbits usually...and now I can take it or leave it. Could it have something to do with the drugs...which I havent been on since the 5th day after my BA ...or could it be the fact that I am having to protect my boobs and i cant really enjoy it? I feel bad cause I am just not into it. Anyone else experience this?

homergirls38018 · 08-31-2008, 12:28 PM

Hello - well I have not been into sex that much either I am just hoping it is because I am trying to get used to the new boobs.....

They are starting to feel a part of me so I am hoping soon we can be rocking!

Jen_St.Charles · 08-31-2008, 01:32 PM

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Originally Posted by homergirls38018

Hello - well I have not been into sex that much either I am just hoping it is because I am trying to get used to the new boobs.....

They are starting to feel a part of me so I am hoping soon we can be rocking!

I hope so. It just isnt like me. I am young and my husband and I have only been married for 9 months. Thanks for the encouragement!

divorced2105 · 08-31-2008, 03:25 PM

jeeze maybe theres something wrong with me...cuz i want sex ALL the time especially ever since i got my BA before my ba i was like watever and now my bf is the one thats always "too tired" lol i guess everyone is different to the reactions! hang in there ladi you will def get it back once you feel more comfortable in your skin!

BrownBird · 08-31-2008, 03:36 PM

hmmm I have found that since Mine are still high and squareish that im kind of embarrassed when my man sees them, so that hasnt helped me much receently, We would usually have it 3 or more times a week, and this past month we have done it like once a week, which really isnt like us either....

AllyKat8 · 08-31-2008, 03:39 PM

It could be just b/c you are focused on your girls and making sure they heal properly.

I never lost my sex drive, but it seems a lot of ladies on here do. Your body went through a huge change...I'm sure you'll be back to normal in no time

HavBootyHavBoobs · 08-31-2008, 05:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Jen_St.Charles

Ladies...I am worried! I just havent been into sex recently...the 2 weeks since my BA...It is wierd cause I have never been this way...my husband and I are like rabbits usually...and now I can take it or leave it. Could it have something to do with the drugs...which I havent been on since the 5th day after my BA ...or could it be the fact that I am having to protect my boobs and i cant really enjoy it? I feel bad cause I am just not into it. Anyone else experience this?

Do you still have any discomfort or swelling? I am glad that I got this surgery while my boyfriend was away because I have felt flirtatious when we are on our webcams, but as far as in person...my back aches and I am still swollen....only 2 days out. I think once he gets here...I should be at least no longer in pain and willing to get frisky.

wishfull yogini · 08-31-2008, 06:54 PM

I know I'm too early on to even think about it! it's only been 4 days for me. I would think that you'd need to be feeling really good physically and to be a long time out from the drug effects. I wouldn't worry about it! My hubby joked last night as he was preparing the chicken breast for the bbq "I'll take my time
and enjoy these breasts as it looks like I won't be enjoying any others for awhile"

Blvd756 · 08-31-2008, 08:12 PM

I don't have a decrease in my sex drive at all but definitely feel VERY defensive of my stomach and breasts which is probably just a reflex after the trauma. I almost get emotional if my guy comes near either one which is very difficult if you are being intimate. I'm so protective of the front of me!

I'm certain things will get better with a little time as the surgery was still very recent, which is also true for you.

Hang in there!

star9151 · 09-02-2008, 03:12 PM

i feel this way too. With a bra on, i feel fine, they look full and natural and they look good, but when i take it off... it just reminds me that their fake... and sometimes its a turn off to myself, lol. But im hoping that once i D&F more, then ill start getting more used to it. Plus, im just barely able to lay different ways now, so im hoping once im fully healed then things will get back to normal.

good luck to u too!

MRevie · 09-02-2008, 04:53 PM

I know what you're going through, for me it had to do with the fact that my breasts were oddly shaped and didn't move so I felt unattractive/ sexy. My solution? Glass (or two) of wine!! I guess it helped take the little insecurity I had away

And when it came down to it, I know I'm sexy I just had to let myself feel it.

homergirls38018 · 09-03-2008, 08:25 PM

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Originally Posted by MRevie

I know what you're going through, for me it had to do with the fact that my breasts were oddly shaped and didn't move so I felt unattractive/ sexy. My solution? Glass (or two) of wine!! I guess it helped take the little insecurity I had away

And when it came down to it, I know I'm sexy I just had to let myself feel it.

Hello - thanks for the much needed smile this evening! Wine does work and I guess I need to have a few glasses!

08-31-2008, 11:21 AM	#1
Jen_St.Charles Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: New Port Richey Florida Posts: 164 My Mood: Thanks: 150 Thanked 71 Times in 55 Posts	Decrease in sex drive after BA? Ladies...I am worried! I just havent been into sex recently...the 2 weeks since my BA...It is wierd cause I have never been this way...my husband and I are like rabbits usually...and now I can take it or leave it. Could it have something to do with the drugs...which I havent been on since the 5th day after my BA ...or could it be the fact that I am having to protect my boobs and i cant really enjoy it? I feel bad cause I am just not into it. Anyone else experience this? __________________ Live Simply. Love Generously. Care Deeply. Speak Kindly. Leave the rest to God! BA Date 8/14/08 Weight: 160 Height: 5'7" Pre BA: 36 A (saggy) Post BA: 36 D Frankenboob!!!! 600 Moderate Profile Saline Unders

08-31-2008, 12:28 PM	#2
homergirls38018 Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Cordova Tennessee Posts: 299 My Mood: Thanks: 193 Thanked 113 Times in 98 Posts	Hello - well I have not been into sex that much either I am just hoping it is because I am trying to get used to the new boobs..... They are starting to feel a part of me so I am hoping soon we can be rocking! __________________ BA Date: July 29, 2008 Overs - mentor gel 400CC's

08-31-2008, 03:25 PM	#4
divorced2105 Join Date: May 2008 Location: oregon Posts: 218 My Mood: Thanks: 117 Thanked 77 Times in 72 Posts	jeeze maybe theres something wrong with me...cuz i want sex ALL the time especially ever since i got my BA before my ba i was like watever and now my bf is the one thats always "too tired" lol i guess everyone is different to the reactions! hang in there ladi you will def get it back once you feel more comfortable in your skin! __________________ url=http://www.ezticker.com/] [/url] BA Date: June 10, 2008 5'1 95lbs Pre BA: Saggy 32 B Post BA: ? Rib cage: 26" 325ccs Ended up w/ as much as could fit 350(R) 350(L) HP Saline.Smooth.Round Crease Incision

08-31-2008, 03:36 PM	#5
BrownBird Tryna Get that Oprah..... Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Nor Cal, CALIFORNIA Posts: 311 My Mood: Thanks: 94 Thanked 77 Times in 67 Posts	hmmm I have found that since Mine are still high and squareish that im kind of embarrassed when my man sees them, so that hasnt helped me much receently, We would usually have it 3 or more times a week, and this past month we have done it like once a week, which really isnt like us either.... __________________ 5"1" 119 lbs 12 More lbs of baby weight to go! Pre BA-Small C?? Post BA- 34 DoubleDizzle... 32DDD maybe ..Bigger? heh BA- Date: August 8th! 460 Fillied to 500cc's Hp Saline Unders

08-31-2008, 03:39 PM	#6
AllyKat8 Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Alexandria, Virginia Posts: 204 My Mood: Thanks: 88 Thanked 92 Times in 69 Posts	It could be just b/c you are focused on your girls and making sure they heal properly. I never lost my sex drive, but it seems a lot of ladies on here do. Your body went through a huge change...I'm sure you'll be back to normal in no time __________________ www.justbreastimplants.com/DeWire/

08-31-2008, 06:54 PM	#8
wishfull yogini Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: British Columbia Posts: 309 My Mood: Thanks: 79 Thanked 129 Times in 112 Posts	I know I'm too early on to even think about it! it's only been 4 days for me. I would think that you'd need to be feeling really good physically and to be a long time out from the drug effects. I wouldn't worry about it! My hubby joked last night as he was preparing the chicken breast for the bbq "I'll take my time and enjoy these breasts as it looks like I won't be enjoying any others for awhile" __________________ BA date Aug 27/08 5'1" 115lbs, previous full anchor lift pre BA 36B, post - so far 36D 350 cohesive gel, partial unders, crease feeling happier every day with the twins!

08-31-2008, 08:12 PM	#9
Blvd756 Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: California Posts: 1,099 My Mood: Thanks: 795 Thanked 510 Times in 410 Posts	I don't have a decrease in my sex drive at all but definitely feel VERY defensive of my stomach and breasts which is probably just a reflex after the trauma. I almost get emotional if my guy comes near either one which is very difficult if you are being intimate. I'm so protective of the front of me! I'm certain things will get better with a little time as the surgery was still very recent, which is also true for you. Hang in there! __________________ 5'4", 118 lbs Pre BA- 34 B Post BA- 32 DD at the moment TUBA incision/saline full unders/mentor mods 375 cc's f/t 425 cc's in both breasts www.justbreastimplants.com/Kim/

09-02-2008, 03:12 PM	#10
star9151 Join Date: May 2008 Location: tracy california Posts: 91 Thanks: 59 Thanked 19 Times in 17 Posts	i feel this way too. With a bra on, i feel fine, they look full and natural and they look good, but when i take it off... it just reminds me that their fake... and sometimes its a turn off to myself, lol. But im hoping that once i D&F more, then ill start getting more used to it. Plus, im just barely able to lay different ways now, so im hoping once im fully healed then things will get back to normal. good luck to u too!

09-02-2008, 04:53 PM	#11
MRevie Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Woodhaven, New York Posts: 113 My Mood: Thanks: 32 Thanked 51 Times in 43 Posts	Hanky Panky I know what you're going through, for me it had to do with the fact that my breasts were oddly shaped and didn't move so I felt unattractive/ sexy. My solution? Glass (or two) of wine!! I guess it helped take the little insecurity I had away And when it came down to it, I know I'm sexy I just had to let myself feel it. __________________ 25 yrs old Height: 5' 1" Weight: 95lbs Pre-BA: 34B (wrong band size) Post-BA: 32DD-Hallelujah :) 390cc's in both Saline. Unders. Areola incision. BA Date: 08/01/08

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