boobie newbie...

[Shawnie24]

hi girls, i've been checking out this forum for some time before my ba and decided to join. i just got my girls done on wed. and have not gone for my post op appointment. i'm getting a little nervous sitting around and i guess i'm in that "what have i done?" phase. my boyfriend is out of town and he was not super excited about me getting this done i won't be seeing him until about 2 weeks post op and i'm so worried he won't like them. i'm just hoping everyone is not going to gawk at me when they realized i did this, because i've told very few people. (i honestly think my boyfriend is a little embarrassed that i wanted to get this done and of what people will think of me) so i'm a little sad and was wondering if anyone had any advice for me?

Here are my stats

5'9 123lbs
350cc silcone unders
mod+
pre-op small 34B

[kpshorty]

You poor thing! Don't let his feelings make you feel any remorse! It's your body and if it makes you feel better to have then, that's all that matters. I'm sure he will love them when it comes down to it! And you will get tons of support from the ladies on here!!!

[hotmom08]

I hvnt had my BA yet. I was a lil worried about what everyone will think or say. My hubby is very supportive and always says why worry about what others think? If they want to judge, let them, you need to be happy with u. I'm going to do what I want, go big, and not worry about what others think. It's my body, I'm the 1 that looks in the mirror everyday and I want to be happy with what I see. Good luck! HTH!

[tigerlily13]

It's your body and as long as you're happy with your decision thats all that matters! Try not to let your bf get you down, maybe he's worried that you'll take your new boobies elsewhere, guys can be really insecure sometimes. I hope things get better for you

[barbiebunny]

I 100% support you!!! I'm sure he will love them when he gets back. My Dh freaks out when I change hair color! Even tho my Dh does not like me changin my hair color ever 4 weeks he quickly gets used to it! He is very exited to get my breasts done he thinks I will look 100 times better in clothes. It just takes some time for people to get use to things. Hope you feel better soon let us know if you need any support at all.

[ebayqueen]

Don't be embarrassed!!! Boobies are awesome, and part of being a woman. The confidence you will get will make you an even better person! Trust me, I am sure your b/f will love them. You didnt go huge big, I don't think anyone at all will say anything. My B/A is in the morning!!!! 16 hours and counting!!!!!

[Shawnie24]

thanks ladies i've been trying to stay positive and my bf did send me flowers the day after surgery (so hes not being completely unsupportive) but my girls are still all wrapped up and they do look BIG haha. so i guess i'm hoping that after i get into a sports bra on tuesday i'll start liking them and so will he. thanks for the support, i don't have a lot of friends that can relate!

ps. from my stats does anyone know how big they'll be? i keep reading different things about girls with my size implants. i was hoping for a full C (not really bigger bc i'm a runner/really active).

[Shawnie24]

omg good luck! mine wasn't so bad (day 2 and 3 were the worst) but i'm feeling good now

[clementine8]

hey, i'm 5'5 114... so not quite as lean as you but i got 300 silicone unders... for a baby C, so proportionately my guess is that you'll be a baby C - but will wear up to a D bra, once they DF.
i'm no expert though!

[ANJIL]

Originally Posted by Shawnie24

thanks ladies i've been trying to stay positive and my bf did send me flowers the day after surgery (so hes not being completely unsupportive) but my girls are still all wrapped up and they do look BIG haha. so i guess i'm hoping that after i get into a sports bra on tuesday i'll start liking them and so will he. thanks for the support, i don't have a lot of friends that can relate!

ps. from my stats does anyone know how big they'll be? i keep reading different things about girls with my size implants. i was hoping for a full C (not really bigger bc i'm a runner/really active).

CONGRATS, Shawnnie, love!! And welcome to the forum. You will probably end up with a lovely full C . The most important thing is that you did something for you and you will be happy that you did. Enjoy your "girls"

[kazzagr]

Wow I can't believe how you're going through the same emotions I did. I was sooo worried about what other people would think, would they think I was vain etc etc. and I am so much the conservative housewife as well. Anyway my DH told me also not to worry about it and that the only person I had to convince to do it was myself - period. (He is very happy with the results by the way)

Anyway the first thing is that I am absolutely amazed at how I can dress the new girls down if I don't want to show off. All I need to do is put a crop top / large Tshirt on and no-one even gives me a second look!! But if I want to dress them up - kapow!!

I haven't really told anyone and at this stage don't feel like I need to. My plan is to introduce my new babies gradually and Iam sure many will either notice or will maybe just have a question in their minds.

Anyway set your mind at ease. I'm sure you weighed it all up before you made the decision to go ahead... so you go girl. Well done and happy healing!!

PS. BTW - Your stats are very similar to mine and I ended up with a full C with 355s so I think you've chosen just right.

[cordy]

to all boobie newbies....congratulations, happy healing and enjoy...dont let the turkeys get you down!!

[prettyNpink]

Originally Posted by Shawnie24

hi girls, i've been checking out this forum for some time before my ba and decided to join. i just got my girls done on wed. and have not gone for my post op appointment. i'm getting a little nervous sitting around and i guess i'm in that "what have i done?" phase. my boyfriend is out of town and he was not super excited about me getting this done i won't be seeing him until about 2 weeks post op and i'm so worried he won't like them. i'm just hoping everyone is not going to gawk at me when they realized i did this, because i've told very few people. (i honestly think my boyfriend is a little embarrassed that i wanted to get this done and of what people will think of me) so i'm a little sad and was wondering if anyone had any advice for me?

Here are my stats

5'9 123lbs
350cc silcone unders
mod+
pre-op small 34B

I also chose not to tell many ppl. Only my parents, sister and bf know. None of my friends, co workers or anyone else. I lied and told my co workers I just need some time off when they asked why I was going to be out for a month. I don't have the kind of job where I can hide em considering my work costumes are very revealing. I too am worried what ppl will think when they see me....I'd rather worry about that though then have told everyone and have them drilling me to the date on why i am doing this to myself. My bf thinks its embarassing too, that's why he hasn't told anyone.
I don't get it. Why does it have to be wrong/embarassing for us to want to feel good about ourselves? Not everyone can be born blessed with big perky bewbs. Sure we are supposed to "love ourselves the way we are" which we do and will even more when we have nice big beautiful boobies

[675mom]

it is great to hear this...i am having my sugery on thursday and this post-op feeling is the thing i am afraid of the most. now i know to just not let it bother me and that it is normal.

[Shawnie24]

you ladies have made me feel sooo much better. i'm on day 5 and went through a normal monday and although i'm still in an ace wrap and was not wearing anything revealing but some how i was still anticipating that someone might notice. honestly not one person did! i'm starting to feel more like they look like they belong there too! its good to know there are others with the same concern and i appreciate you sharing your stories <333 shawnnie

[675mom]

that is soooo good to hear shawnie! take care and heal up...